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So I've just found out I'm pg...

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RaRaZ · 04/10/2013 06:51

...via First Response, and AF isn't due until Monday. I checked today because DP has been away and I thought it would be nice to welcome him back with the words "You're going to be a daddy" if I could. But now I'm a bit scared... what's the chance of this embryo only implanting for a couple of days? I've had early MCs before... In fact, I'm ttc after losing two babies this year and one last and I'm a little bit terrified Hmm

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TakingTheStairs · 04/10/2013 06:54

Congratulations!!
What happy news.

I'm so sorry about your other two MCs. It must make you very anxious. I have no advice to offer, just wanted to offer my congratulations x

evelynj · 04/10/2013 07:01

Congrats!

So sorry to hear of your previous losses & it will be a trying 10 weeks until scan but there's not much you can do so try to think positive.

Maybe you could make an app with doc to get an earlier scan if that would help-may depend on your history if they'd do this.

Best of luck x

barebranches · 04/10/2013 07:02

i had the same. Got a positive 4 days before AF due. i really thought AF would still come... but it didnt and im 22 weeks now.
Congratulations!!!!

RaRaZ · 04/10/2013 07:09

Thankyou Smile. My GP said a few weeks ago that she'd get me in for an early scan and also hopefully regular visits to obstetrician based on what's happened already, so fingers crossed. Time to make a doctor's appt!

Barebranches: Brilliant! Hope I'm the same as you! It's just weird; I know that different women take different amounts of time to get a positive pg test, but I assumed that it would be roughly the same each time for the same woman if that makes sense? But my first pg this year took until I was 2wks late to get a positive, the second was positive ridiculously early though I don't know how early as it was following a D&C, and this one is four days early!

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mumofone25 · 04/10/2013 07:22

Congratulations! Lovely news. Wishing you all the best :)

Writerwannabe83 · 04/10/2013 07:54

OMG CONGRATULATIONS!!

So, so, so happy for you x x Grin

coffeewineandchocolate · 04/10/2013 07:58

Congratulations!!! I don't think hormones follow rules!! I didn't get a positive test until four days after my period should have come with my first and got a positive the day before with my current pregnancy! I would see it as a good sign of strong and multiplying hormone levels??

tannyLoo72 · 04/10/2013 08:15

I sound like you, very early days (4+2) with faint positive test results and had 2 MCs in the last year. My obs said I could get a scan at 8 weeks and this seems like an age away!
I feel much more pregnant this time, sore boobs, tired, grouchy, headache and full blown morning sickness, and this is making me hope its a goodun.
Congratulations! Good luck, and remember to enjoy it! x

RaRaZ · 04/10/2013 08:29

Thankyou all so much for your good wishes - it's really appreciated and you're making me even more excited, so excited I could cry!!! Can't wait to tell DP when he gets back Grin

TannyLoo: Wow, I'm like 5 days behind you - we can compare notes on morning sickness later down the line! Grin Hope your faint line gets stronger and quickly for your peace of mind. 8wks does seem a long way away.... OMG I'm going to be terrified till I get to that point! Good luck Flowers xx

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ThisIsMeNow · 04/10/2013 08:29

Congratulations! My positive test 4 days before af is currently climbing on and off the bed! So fingers crossed that will be you too!
Tell him, you'd want his support if anything went wrong so let him share this happy news too.

absentmindeddooooodles · 04/10/2013 08:35

Just wanted to say congratulations. How exciting for you. Good luck with everything :)

MummyJetsetter · 04/10/2013 11:39

Congratulations!!! Hope this one's a keeper! You should tell him as soon as he walks in the door, let yourselves get excited. I don't believe in tempting fate, it'll happen or it won't but being positive wont be the thing that determines what happens. If anything I believe that being positive will help, stress helps nothing!

Good luck and enjoy pregnancy! x

neversleepagain · 04/10/2013 14:08

Congratulations :)

Same thing happened to me. BFP 4 days before AF due. AF never came and I now have one year old twins :)

RaRaZ · 04/10/2013 16:02

Ooooh I'd love twins! ...preferably next pg though lol. Thanks so much guys - DP now isn't going to be home until about 1900 and I'm itching to tell him! Bet you anything there wouldn't have been this delay on him getting back if I didn't have exciting news (the bastard)! Got the pg tests on the desk in front of me (at home, not at work!!!) and I keep checking them cos I can't quite believe it's true!

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Fairydogmother · 04/10/2013 16:29

Congrats OP!

I got a positive 5 days before period was due and I'm now 35+3 Grin

tannyLoo72 · 04/10/2013 16:47

Yep, I got possie last Saturday, 4 days b4 AF due. I only tested because I was feeling so hormonal I thought I was going to explode!
Tell us all about it when you've told him! Grin

RaRaZ · 07/10/2013 09:13

I told him on Friday night when he got home. He's excited, but it doesn't feel quite real for him yet - roll on scans etc! He's doing a good job of looking after me though Grin - which is good cos I'm starting to feel terrible already Hmm.

I'm really worried/paranoid though... I've had MCs before and I'm scared I'm going to have another. I have diarrhoea and the only time I've had that in my life is when I MC-ed in May Sad. That's really scaring me. I didn't bleed then either - they had to give me a D&C several weeks later. But I'm crampy and, as I say, have diarrhoea. I've read loads of people get that in early pg, but how do I know if it's ok for me or not???

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RaRaZ · 07/10/2013 10:32

I'm going on Wed, so hoping they'll do that for me. I'm a bit confused by my tests:

4th October: 2x First Response (sensitivity 10): both good clear lines
6th October: 1 x First Response: stronger line
7th October: 1 x Asda (sensitivity 15): clear, definite line, but not that dark AND 1 x CB Digital (sensitivity 25): 'Pregnant 2-3'

How can the CB, which is looking for a higher HCG level, seem to think I'm more pg than the Asda? I used the exact same urine (piac)

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SaggyIsHavingAPinkKitten · 07/10/2013 14:13

STOP! This way madness lies! Smile
Step away from the tests!
Each brand is different, and CBD are more trouble than they are worth! They can be up to +/- 10 days out!
You are PG. Without wanting to sound harsh, only time will tell you anything at this stage. Try and breathe and just enjoy the moment. xx
P.S. I do understand, the waiting is shit!
Come over to the Posifrickentivity thread here in pregnancy and join the many others of us who are PG after MC and trying to hang onto sanity! Grin

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