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JamesCurtis · 28/09/2013 14:13

To cut a long story short. I'm pretty sure my girlfriend has lied about being pregnant (to the 9 month mark!).

She told me a due date of 14/9/13, on which she was out for her friends birthday she then went to Ibiza for a week... which she told me about but I assumed she wasn't going. I have a picture of her drinking too... yes the week after she was due...

Anyway, she told me she was pregnant the first weekend in January and that she took the test on new years eve (I hadn't seen her or had sex with her since mid December and first time we did was mid November), we continued to have sex until the end of Feb/start of March by which time she said she didn't feel like it and we haven't had sex since; she's still really close to me and talks about that she bought things for the baby already (at her dad's attic) etc

Quite obviously my head is a mess (considering I've told everyone we're having a child!).

The only solid evidence she has or such is 2 scan photos below; I'd appreciate if anyone could approximately date them? I know it's very hard to do over the internet but I don't know what else to do.

She told me she was pregnant 5/1/13, she guessed conception at first week December and told me due date was 12/9/13 and then it changed to 14/9/13.

She sent to me 18th of May

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and this one on the 19th of August

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I've taken it to a midwife and while they didn't want to say too much they estimated that the photo dates don't match? Especially with the due date etc

Please help. Thanks.

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Potterer · 28/09/2013 23:08

Cjilly she lied from the very beginning, she lied about her age, said she was 32 when she was actually over 40, he was late 20's. She lied about being on the pill when she wasn't and she clearly wanted another baby.

My mate's Dad had died, he was a mess and he just wanted to find some nice girl settle down and have a family of his own. She deceived him, not a nice way to start a relationship.

I can understand about worrying about the miscarriage bit but to lie about having had children before and denying they were hers was horrific. They were late teens/early twenties so not young children. Hence why she couldn't admit they were hers as it would give her age away!

dan what are you going to do with all the information on the source of the scan photo? Have you anyone in real life you can talk to about all of this?

Cjilly · 29/09/2013 09:23

Potterer I'm appalled! Don't even know what to say about that, poor him!!!!
The extent pathological liars go to fabricate stories and go along with it, scare the living daylights out of me.

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