Someone help please sooo confused ectopic or not ? Pul!

[Sarahlou25]

Please can someone help me I'm driving myself insane I am 25 an found out I was pregnant on the 13th of September it was a planned pregnancy and we were very excited also very pleased to give my partners son from previous relationship a much wanted brother or sister!. On Wednesday of last week I had a bit of cramping so went to hospital was told to go to EPU next morning I did an first thing they said was likely ectopic but hasn't even ran tests, finally had a scan an there wasn't anything to see but at only 4wks I'm sure that was normal? There was however a cyst/sac on my left side outside the womb, My hcg level was 367 and 48hrs later only rose to 437 I no longer have pain I haven't had any bleeding but they have asked me to go in tommorow (Monday) so they can scan and confirm ectopic! I'm so confused as to what I'm to think and have got in a terrible state an I still feel all of the things I should be horrible smells sore breasts mood swings :s please someone reply even just with an opinion pls, sarah xx

That sounds very upsetting. Not sure how helpful I can be but if you have any serious sharp pain, please go to A&E.

Hi I hope everything is ok, I found out I was pregnant in same day as you but I have a coil in , so there's a high chances in eptopic, I am going to have a scan Monday 30th to find out, they have done my blood and it tripled in 48 hours so hopefully that's a good sign, I hope you scan went ok today

Hi thank you for your replies, it was bad news for me I'm afraid I'm gutted but clearly wasn't my time Infact I don't think 2013 has been my time it's possibly the worst year I've had in 25, I have to go back to have more blood tests Wednesday and Friday so they can see if it has dissolved itself if not I have to have medication or the operation. I think it is awful that they are making me wait as I can't get my head round it as it is and I wanted my baby so badly, now I have to wait and see if it dies naturally! Surprisethird good luck and I will keep everything crossed for you x

Just wanted to say I'm so sorry Sarah, sending you a huge hug xx

Hi Sarahlou I just wanted to say this is like my first pregnancy in 2010. the ectopic I had was failing and passed of its own accord with bleeding and I felt some one sided pain. I was devastated at the time but now I have a two yr old DS and am 37weeks pregnant again - so don't give up and get to down hearted (although I know its easier said than done)