Help need surprise third and getting married!
Today, 10:49 AM #1
Hi, I have just joined so I have no idea if this is the correct place to post.
I have just found out I am expecting my third baby, I have a 14 yr old and a 8 yr old, I also have a coil fitted and only half a right ovary left due to a dermoid cyst and a simple cyst, so god know how I got pregnant, my doctor says its a miracle! The thing is I am getting married in November to my partner of 16 yrs, I have the wedding dress, fits me perfectly, all paid for and now I will be 13 weeks pregnant on my wedding day! I really can't remember how much weight I put on or how big my belly got, I feel gutted at the timing of it all! I got pregnant in2010 with the coil in but had to have a termination due to a dermoid cyst at the same time, so they tried the pill on me due to my body getting pregnant withthecoil, however last September I got a blood clot in my lung due to the pill, so I can't go on that, in may this year I have my left ovary removed due to a simple cyst of 8cm and at the same time had the marina coil put it as its ment to stop you ovulating, so I could minimise the risk ofgettinganother cyst on remain half ovary, however now I find my self 5 weeks pregnant, I have had hcg levels taken as the risk of eptopic and they tripled in two days, so looks ok so far and having a scan on30th to see where coil is and to make sure pregnancy n right place! Can I still try and lose weight for my wedding or do I just accept my dress won't fit ! I am so full of questions at the moment, I also have to find out if I have a case against hospital because there is nowhere i my notes about the mirena coil being put in so no follow up appointment made to check if still there after first period , doctors say they only have notes about my operation no mention of the coil that's was fitted, I hope someone evading this will make sense of some of this, typing on my iPad so loads of spelling mistakes sorry