Pregnancy

[Tilly43]

Hi I'm new on here so just trying to work it all out :) I'm 5 wks 5 days pregnant. Me and my partner planned and tried for this pregnancy, after finding out it was a success he became distant and no longer interested in me. This caused our relationship to change loads :( he's now walked away an decided he doesn't want to be here. I'm so confused an left with the decision as whether to carry on with the pregnancy, I already have 3 children but feel so bad as we planned for this baby. Has anyone been threw similar?? I can't decide what to do :( x

Hi Tilly,
Didn't want to read and run. It's still early day in your preg so may be your partner hasn't had time to digest the news. In my limited experience men do react in strange ways to pregnancies - even planned ones. My DH didn't speak for 3 days when I told him I was preg with DC! and when I announced this pregnancy (DC3) he wanted me to have an abortion and told me he'd leave if I didn't I knew that if I had an abortion it would have been the end for dh and I anyway so I knew either way I was going to have this baby. - he's okay now but has asked for the snip for Christmas (baby's due date!)
My own dad walked out for three days when my mum told him about my brother. They're still together 33 yrs later!

Don't rush into anything. Think about all the possible outcomes.