Possible Miscarriage

[vinceb]

Hi Everyone... Looking for a bit of advice.

My wife and myself have been trying to get pregnant for 6 years and were having no luck. We went through one cycle of IVF and despite everything looking positive something went wrong with the embryo transfer. Those 2 weeks were hell but we decided to keep trying the natural method.

Yesterday the Mrs tried a pregnancy test and it came out positive with a +3 weeks and we were overjoyed as we had tried everything.

She then said this morning that she had passed blood clots and some light bleeding. It's about time for her normal period and we're not sure if it's the first signs of a miscarriage which would be completely devastating or possibly hormonal bleeding.

We're really worried as we've gone through so much and in the course of a few hours we've gone from joy to being completely gutted in a couple of hours.

Has anyone else had these symptoms and been ok?

Thank you

Vince.

Quick Update everyone. Thanks for kind wishes.. She's doing really well.. In boots and bars about 16 hours a day at the moment. She has cracked my knee with her bar as she wasn't happy with the amount of milk we were giving her.she's very lively!. Her wrists are loosening all the time as well. What a difference from a year ago!!

So happy to read your updates Vince. And such a beautiful baby! I hope you've all had a magical Christmas.

Thank you.. She had her second set of boots fitted yesterday. She's doing commando crawling at the moment and can even do it now with the boots and bars . The Physio is very happy with her progress. Her left hand needs to stretch the tendons more and she is very 'right' orientated at the moment. It's amazing that we have this lovely beautiful baby when just a year ago we were fearing so much for the future and had no idea what the future would bring. I'm adding a recent phot of her :)

She'll be 1 year old sooooon.. Saw Consultant yesterday... She is progressing better than expected. She's hopefully in the 5% who probably won't need further surgery. She is a little stiff in the limbs but is strong which is easily rectifiable... Got her first shoes from Clarks yesterday.. She is a real pocket rocket. She managed to climb all the way up the stairs yesterday.. with me behind her.. Gate installed straight after that.

What an amazing story ! Your daughter is so beautiful ! So happy for you and your wife. Keep updating it is such a ray of sunshine hearing about how well she is doing and how happy you are. All the best to the 3 of you X

Vince this is the loveliest thread I have ever read. Thank you for sharing and continuing to update.

Such a beautiful, life affirming thread! Thank you so much for sharing your amazing journey Vince!

This is a heart warming thread. So happy it haa worked out for your lovely little family. All the best for the future

this has made me smile so much. what a gorgeous little girl! x

Lovely thread Vince, all the best to you and your beautiful daughter.

I am new on the forum and I have just read the whole thread and what an emotional roller coaster!
I am so happy for you and your wife! What a lovely little girl!

She is so beautiful and what a lovely mum and dad she has. Inspiring .

What a lovely thread to find. Your little girl is very lucky to have such positive parents shes beautiful

Best thread ever!
Love to you all.

What a lovely thread. Thank you for sharing your incredible story. Your little girl is beautiful!

Thank you.. She is our everything and proof that sometimes no matter how bad things can sometimes seem, good things can come out of it.. She is sleeping soundly with her boots on and she can certainly shout for England.. Photo attached of her the other day.. She is such a happy smiley baby :) Love to everyone! Vince x

Adorable!!

Thank you so much for sharing your story. Tears of happiness in my eyes. What a precious little girl.

Our little baby walked all the way from one end of the room to the other today.. So proud of her. such a little fighter.. She is so stubborn but then I suppose this is a good thing. Looks like her wrists are going to be ok, she's gripping things alright. Still 12 hours a night in the boots but will be like that for next 4 years... Fingers crossed she doesn't relapse.

Almost 4 years down the line and yesterday was her last night in boots and bars..They've gone to help children with the same problem in developing countries .. Phew.. She loves Gymnastics and cricket! Who'd have thought eh? After all that, just check ups every 6 months :)

Amazing story and so happy for you all :)

Fantastic story! So pleased that everything worked out for you x Your daughter is beautiful 💜

What a truly inspiring story, all the best to you and your little family for the years ahead.