I had a VBAC with Ds2, afteer an EMCS with DS1
The two labours were pretty similar, although Ds1 was induced. Ds2 labour started after a sweep.
13 hours labour, long transition, epidural, over and hour and a half of pushing, then ventouse with DS2. Continuos monitoring. I was mentally prepared for another EMCS and it nearly happened.
Emotionally/ psychologically i was "satisfied" to have experienced a vaginal birth, but looking back, the feeling of more control and knowledge was the thing that made it better. Put it this way, if i ever had another baby, i would have no hesitation i going for an ELCS.
I had a toddler and that was one reason to try for a VBAC. As it turned out, I'd say recovery was not all that much better after the VBAC. I had a transfusion, a second degree tear, and horrendous piles so felt a bit crap, physically. Was happier though. But as i say, can't tell if thisnwas simply a result of feeling more in control.