i found out today im pregnant and as yet not told anyone cos im in shock as it wasnt planned and the timing isnt great as recently had surgery plus couple other factors. I just cant imagine how ile cope with three kids, my kids are 6 and 3 but thr 3 year old is a handfull. any mums who have had 3 kids and can offer any advice cos i dont think i cud choose to end it without very gud reason like risk to me or the baby. i can only be fivevweeks max but already feeling very stressed :-[