Help who may the dad be

[leigh1991]

I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and i made a stupid mistake drunk and had a 1 night stand early hours on the 27 th march this year i found out this month april 11th i was 3+ weeks pregnant so am not sure hu the dad is if i was pregnant to the one night stand shouldn't the test say 2 weeks as 27 th to the 11 april is not more than 3 weeks plus i did take the morning after pill the day after i had a one night stand on the 28 th of march , but i still not 100 percent its just crazy how all year av been with my fella and march i get pregnant and had a one night stand , i calculated my last period which was the 4 th march so i used a due date calculator and it showed days where i was fertile and he day i may of conceived and it showed dates before the 27 th (one night stand) It said i conceived around the 18 th so i may already of been pregnant before the 27 th i am so scares and worried but when i took the clear blue the test said i was to far gone for it to have been the 27 th march ?????

I took MAP too also didn't work, it only works by stopping an egg from been released, if you take it when the egg has already been released then it wonO't work, as it just stops ovulation from occuring. Well thats how I understand it anyway.

No one is judging you at all, people make mistakes, its the fact that you really sound likd you are willing to live a lie, even if the child's your partners he still has the right to know, would you like to know if your partner had gone and had a one night stand behind your back and was a potential farther? I'm sure you would. My partner has had this done to him, and the girl is still denying it now and letting someone else bring him up as his own, even though he looks spitting image of my partner and believe me it causes more problems. So its best to get it out in the open with him and find out for sure when babys here. Don't spend your lifetime lying to your partner and child, if it comes out later, they will only resent you for it.

you are bang out of order not saying anything to your bf. it will come back and bites you in the ass in the end

I think the OP has said she has used the MAP several times, which is fairly shocking.

She needs to think about her morals.

Sleeping with more than one man while fertile is bewilderingly questionable. especially when the minor character has a family of his own,

What is the OP thinking. Why is she trying to rationalise a feral lifestyle? What hope is thee for her unborn child?

OP you are wrong to count back 8 weeks and 3 days from 3rd May. You must count back SIX weeks and 3 days as when they calculate gestation they add an extra two weeks to take it to the beginning of your cycle.

Therefore this takes you to a likely conception date of 19th March give or take 4/5 days.

Hi Leigh, what a horrible situation to be in. Nobody can tell you what to do, only yourself, although I think you've been given a lot of good advice from MNers on here.
This may be an expensive option but I think it is possible to get a DNA test in utero at 10 weeks (which would be 8 wks after conception). It does carry risks & you would need a blood sample from one of the men - possibly ask the one night stand guy for a blood sample so you can rule him out? That way your boyfriend needn't know until you are sure of who the father is.
Just an idea, may not be a viable one though, especially as it may be expensive. Best you google it.
I hope you make the best decision for yourself. But I do echo that your boyfriend ought to know if there is a chance it is not his.
Good luck!

you sound delightful !

If your baby isn't your bfs then you want a termination .. the baby is still yours! and do you really think you should be having a baby with your bf if it is actually his!? there are clearly issues for you to dtd on him!

I can't believe you are actually contemplating lying to the two men involved in this dreadful situation of your creation. Have you no decency? You clearly have a lack of morals and think you would benefit by takin a good long hard look at yourself and how you have allowed this to happen.