UGH. I changed GPs (moved house and old GP too far to waddle). I treble checked with the new GP receptionist that the in-house midwife saw all pregnant patients and not just ones having their baby at a specific hospital - I'm booked at Kings, but the midwife is from Lewisham. No, no, they promised, she sees all pregnant patients, wherever they are booked.
16 week appointment rolls round, after being screamed at by my boss about "all these appointments and time off" I managed to make it there. Walked in, midwife said hello, we've not met before, can I just check your having your baby at Lewisham as I don't see any other patients....
I burst into hysterical, inconsolable sobs.
The following week I managed to squeeze in an appointment with the hospital midwives but I forgot my notes and the receptionist tried to send me away, then made about four phone calls in front of the waiting room about "the woman who has Not Brought Her Notes", then lectured me about it, then I had my blood pressure taken by a midwife who said there was nothing else she would do for me without my notes. Apart from another lecture.
So I am with you! Am hoping I'll have stopped weeping / raging by the 25 week appointment....