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is this an ectopic pregnancy?

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notsoold · 25/02/2013 21:06

Yesterday I started having cramps about 6pm....not so painful as periods cramps but only on my right side.
No other symptoms and otherwise well...
I went to epu today and because I am 6+2 they dod some blood tests and told me to come home. They thought that at 6+2 a heartbeat might not showed in a scan and I would stress even more...
The epu phoned tonight and told me to book a scan tomorrow and that the hcg result was 5163...
Should I be worried???
Can it be ectopic with that result??
Ps I am 41..

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ChairmanWow · 27/02/2013 07:40

I'm so sorry for all the worry you're going through notso. Please try not to worry too much about your symptoms - I've always found with my pregnancies that you get days when they seem to have eased off and days when they feel stronger.

Will be thinking of you and keeping fingers crossed for a strong, healthy heartbeat.

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notsoold · 27/02/2013 15:13

goosey how did it go today???

chairman thank you....to be truthful I am trying to keep calm ( if not positive about a happy outcome) but without success....
For sure it will be a long week ....xxx

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goosey123 · 28/02/2013 13:15

Thanks for asking notsoold. I wish I could post some positive uplifting news, but unfortunately it hasn't worked out for me this time. The scan showed no development. In a way it has helped having the 2 weeks to prepare myself, and I'm still really glad I had those positive stories to cling on to. I really hope you are doing OK with the awful wait x

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notsoold · 28/02/2013 17:12

Goosey.... I am so sorry.... Take care of yourself... Xxx

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beckie90 · 28/02/2013 21:26

So sorry goosey :(

Notsoold, just wanted to say, my pregnancy at 5+4 was only showing a sac no yolk or anything, they obviously thought the worse, went back 12 days later and there was a baby with a heartbeat. Finger

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beckie90 · 28/02/2013 21:27

Daft phone, was meant to finish, fingers crossed for you xx

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notsoold · 28/02/2013 22:10

Beckie....thank you! I need as many finfers crossed as possible. The fact that they told me the gestacional sac was 12mm ( about 6weeks) and yolk sac but no fetal pole is concerning...
It put either the pregnancy back or ( much worse... Not a viable pregnancy.
I am preparing myself for the worst, not because I am giving up on this pg, but because when I asked if it might be ok and if I got my dates wrong, she said "yes ....but it is more certain that it is not going to be a viable pregnancy....
Hope she is wrong!!!
I am glad you had a good result :)

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notsoold · 07/03/2013 11:14

Just an update...
I had another scan today and they found the fetal pole with a heartbeat.
Everything measuring around 6 weeks instead of my almost 8 but I was told not tp worry..
:) very happy!!!! Early days I know but I am very happy!!!
Thank you for holding my hand!

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SunshineOutdoors · 07/03/2013 12:19

Hi, I just read this thread feeling sad and I'm so happy to read your last post. I bet you are too! Good luck with your pregnancy, I hope all goes well for you Smile

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Knitella · 07/03/2013 16:55

Just read this thread for the first time - so pleased for you notsoold!! Brilliant news.

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Cavort · 07/03/2013 17:05

Fantastic news Notsoold, I'm sure you are thrilled after a difficult 2 weeks Smile

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notsoold · 07/03/2013 17:19

Thank you...the stress levels were sky high! I just don't think I will totally relax until I am holding the lo...:)

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1500mmania · 08/03/2013 19:29

Great news I'm so happy for you GrinGrinGrinGrinGrinGrinGrin

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notsoold · 08/03/2013 21:10

:) thanks

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honey86 · 08/03/2013 21:30

congrats hunni Grin although im abit shocked that she said such a rash thing like its more certain to not be viable Blush talk about positivity Hmm Thanks

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Guntie · 08/03/2013 21:33

notso Congratulations!!! So pleased to hear that!

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HavingALittleFaithBaby · 09/03/2013 08:55

Oh that's great news! :) Hold on to that hope!

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notsoold · 09/03/2013 21:57

Thank you!!!
Honey you are totally right.... Had she been a bit more impartial I wouldn't be so down ....

Guntie...thanks hun!!!

Having a little thank you :)

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