I am currently 18weeks pregnant with my second child and have been told by the midwife at my booking-in appointment that I have deep vein thrombosis. She said I had this during my first pregnancy (although no-one ever told me) and I would have to see a consultant during this one. I was so shocked that I was never told about this and that I had been receiving heparin injections during my labour and c section without being told. That aside I am being regularly checked and monitered and have blood tests every four weeks. Depite my inital shock, I am quite calm about this and know that I am being monitored closely. My husband, however, is another matter, he is convinced that becuase there is a problem with my blood that something is going to go wrong and he is panicking that something will happen to me or the baby. I am trying to reassure him that I am being kept a close eye on and it will be fine, but he just can't get his head round it.
What can I do to re-assure him??