anyone else just can't be bothered to do social stuff? i've spent christmas just grinning through it but i don't have the energy anymore to make polite conversation while they get drunk, when all i want to do is slob out on the sofa. OH keeps organising to see people too and i just don't want to but feel i can't say no because i don't want to offend anyone or seem like a misearble cow. i just want to be left alone!