Got pregnant accidently at 39, DS born when I was 40.
Started TTC at 41.
Got pregnant first month, but MMC at 12 weeks.
Got pregnant in month 4, but MMC at 11 weeks.
Started to see an acupuncturist, who advised waiting to TTC for 3 months.
When I got the green light to go, got pregnant first month but MMC at 12 weeks.
Had recurrent MC tests, nothing wrong.
Was now nearly 43, was now harder to get a BFP. Got 2 in a year, but MC both at 6weeks.
Was about to give up, but got BFP month before my 44th birthday. Am now 34 weeks with DS2.
There's a great thread in conception for 40+. Good luck.