SEX Question!! TMI ALERT!!

[pregnantandconfused]

Right. Prepare for TMI.

DH and I had sex last night and I want to know if this is normal as have noticed it the last two times.

I'm 30 weeks and after DH is...cough cough...finished, I wop a hankie to save the sheet from getting wet and waddle off to the loo to sort myself out.

Normally (i.e. before I was this big with baby), all the 'stuff' would come out and i would clean myself up and be fine. However, the last two times I have sat on the loo for a while, squeezed as much as poss out (I know, I know) washed, gone up to bed, and just as I am getting comfortable, I seem to move a certain muscle and a load more...stuff...squidges out!

I know, this isn't a serious question or anything, but it's like a whole nother pool of the stuff has gathered and doesn't come out until a random time. Once it was the following morning.

Both time this has happened I've freaked out thinking that my waters have borken or something terrible...

...Please...has anyone else noticed this since being bigger?

TYIA!

Quite normal, i've hung on to it until the morning several times. Another added bonus of being heavily pregnant. Wait until your 40 weeks! ;-)

HAHA! To be fair I shouldn;t laugh but I'm having flashbacks of the awkward sex my and DP were having when I was mahoosive with my first.

I think you kind of have to remember that you are prone to excreting more natural lubricant when your up the duff and having sex so it's probably a combination of your excess bodily fluids and DP's that you are experiencing. At least that is what I put it down to cos to answer your question, YES I found this exact same thing.

Happy humping pregnantandconfused

So sorry I have no expert answer but god I love mumsnet!

Possibly you are producing more of your own, ahem 'come' and then strong pelvic floor muscles are relaxing later on and letting it out??!

Thank flip it's not just me!!

Thanks ladies :)

We all get soggy Foofies every now and then LOL!!

this happens to me!

i'll tell you what it is. you're more (ahem) "engorged" downstairs while pg, thanks to baby's weight + hormone changes, especially towards the end.

which means you're basically swollen shut, to some extent at least. after sex even more so, iyswim. and it takes much longer to dissipate because of the increased blood flow. so what would have previously fallen straight out when you get up to go to the loo, now resides happily inside the ladybits for several hours at least :)

i also sometimes find it hard to pee afterwards for the same reason. the swelling must put pressure on the urethra etc.

oh dear - i have the opposite. When i am not preggers i keep hold of it, sometimes for 2 days! but now i'm 30 weeks it just floods out (partly because i'm usually on top now) but also as i think there is nowhere for it to go.

have i got a weird fanjo?!

Nope that happens to me too :b I have occasionally managed to go through entire periods only letting blood go when I go to the loo. Never told anyone that!