Feeling nervous 12 wk scan Friday following 2 m/c. Positive stories anyone?

[cinderellabelle]

Last year i suffered a M/C in July at 7 weeks and another in December at 5 weeks both times i bled had scans and no HB detected.

I'm now pg again and due 12 wk scan on Friday and i'm petrified it's all gone wrong!!

We went for scan at 7 weeks due to pain and there was a bean with a hb but also a small area of bleeding under the sac! I paid to have a private scan at 8 +4 and again saw and heard hb but there was still an area of bleeding (which i'm told not to worry about it is tiny). I haven't bled at all this time and have had sickness, nausea, sore boobs and extreme tiredness all of which i've never had before. (symptoms are fading now).

I'm just so scared i'll go Friday and they will say nope sorry no hb again.

You are bound to be feeling nervous due to your previous m/c's, but the likelihood is that all is ok this time.
Youve had no bleeding, strong symptoms, seen a hb at 2 early scans, no reason to think anything has gone wrong.
You will be fine on friday x

My daughter had a huge bleed at 7 weeks, a large area of bleeding was found, she continued to bleed until 13 weeks..........today I have been looking after my beautiful grandaughter who will be 1 next week, I truly hope you have the same outcome as she did, x

How you feel is completely normal, i had a mc in December and im now nearly 13wks, i had a scan 2wks ago and saw my wriggly baby but im still anxious so im having another scan this Thursday.

As you said my symptoms are strong this time as well and i feel crap pregnant.

your more than welcome to join a group of us who are pregnant after a mc, its on the pregnancy board and called, "pregnant after a mc totally terrified, reassurance etc etc"

How did you get on yesterday cinderellabelle?

Kind of in same boat as you! I miscarried in Jan but are pregnant again. At 6 weeks I had a bleed thought I was losing this baby to had a scan at 8 weeks and they found a very large bleed next to baby which took up half of my uterus they told me to expect to micarry. Went back at 10 weeks for another scan and baby was fine and bleed gettin smaller then another scan last week and bleed is even smaller and baby doing great. Its been so stressful and scary and I have been spotting since my bleed at 6 weeks but they say the bleed is resolving. Small bleeds usual don't affect the baby it when they are larger they tend to worry. But any bleeding in pregnancy is scary no matter how big. I'm still nervous about my pregnancy even though baby is totally fine its just knowing the bleed is there. You still have all your pregnancy symptoms which is good. As long as your not having serious cramps and bleeding hopefully you should be fine. I hope everything goes well at scan im sure baby will be fine xxxxxxxx