Ruddy hell, Monkey, that sounds crap! Where in the country are you - why on earth did they do a speculum exam? and why do a urine analysis when they have done a blood one?! Have you looked to see if you have an early pregnancy unit near you? Might be worth going again at a differnt time to see if you can get a different registrar.
I got my blood tests back - my HCG levels have doubled in 48 hours (almost exactly), which is what they are supposed to do, so this makes an ectopic much less likely, apparently. my pain is a bit better since I have been reassured slightly by that - some of it must have been tension. It is still there, though, quite stabby, but not enough to stop me in my tracks or anything.
The EPU will phone me tomorrow and hopefully book another scan just to see what is going on. I am now very grateful to live where we do, and get good early pregnancy provision (Worcestershire).
monkey, if it gets worse at all, or the spotting turns into 'prune juice' like, I would get to A and E straight away and take your pregnancy tests with you!
Hope you feel better tomorrow. I am sorry for others who have had ectopics - it has certainly made me realise how horrible the waiting is.