Hubby is complaining I am boring him with talking about baby. But it is hard not to, after 12 yrs of marriage and being told we could never conceive and one adopted child later.......I am nearly 40 too! I know that I am boring mother-in-law. I can't talk to friends because they have had trouble conceiving. My mother is not on the scene. Am I being selfish, or is he the selfish git - lol?