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blondiemermaid · 10/03/2012 21:44

Am 11 weeks and first scan next Thursday but out shopping today and felt a gush and was bleeding, I miscarried at this point in November last year.
Went to hospital cervix is closed,no clotting or cramps but my proestrogen??levels are only 11 and should be 25 so they are saying its 70/30 a miscarriage has anyone had this and all been ok?
I am booked for a scan Monday to see what's happening but was my birthday yesterday and this has knocked me I thought I was doing so well this time
Any advice appreciated at the moment

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Sockspence · 10/03/2012 21:45

oh love, I've not experienced that but I have a hand you can hold.

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blondiemermaid · 10/03/2012 21:47

Thank you Sad
I've stopped bleeding now and have no cramps so am hoping all be ok but deep down am so scared

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Sockspence · 10/03/2012 21:59

Am popping off now, but I hope that tomorrow goes quickly for you with no more bleeding.

crustyonion · 10/03/2012 22:01

I know how you're feeling. I miscarried and then had a bleed in a subsequent pregnancy, but everything luckily was ok in the end. I hope it's the same for you.

I'm going to send hugs even though they're frowned upon.

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blondiemermaid · 10/03/2012 22:04

Thanks for the hand hold socksSmile
Glad to hear all went ok for you crusty and for the frowned upon hug Grin I don't want to get my hopes up to much just to be disappointed again but always think positive as do believe it helps

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grrd · 10/03/2012 22:15

i know you don't want to get your hopes up, but it is a good sign that cramps and bleed are gone. sending lots of good thoughts to you. i hope it all works out ok! try and rest a bit now..

crustyonion · 10/03/2012 22:19

I think you're being very sensible. Thinking positively is certainly better than getting horribly stressed. Damn hard to do mind in the circumstances. I really feel for you. Good luck.

silverangel · 11/03/2012 08:57

I had a mc and then a bleed at 11 weeks in my next pregnancy - terrified me but turned out it was caused by a low lying placenta, and my twins are now 7 months. Good luck!

silverangel · 11/03/2012 08:57

I had a mc and then a bleed at 11 weeks in my next pregnancy - terrified me but turned out it was caused by a low lying placenta, and my twins are now 7 months. Good luck!

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blondiemermaid · 11/03/2012 21:10

Just wanted to come and update to everyone who was so kind I unfortunately today have had a major bleed and have most definately lost the baby Sad
Thank you for your hugs, kind words and positive story's they were much appreciated am now going to get myself back to me and try again when I feel ready x

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silverangel · 11/03/2012 21:42

Oh Blondie, so sorry for your loss and best wishes for the future x

silverangel · 11/03/2012 21:42

Oh Blondie, so sorry for your loss and best wishes for the future x

PickleSarnie · 11/03/2012 22:18

I don't want to give you false hope but I had a massive bleed at 12 weeks. All over the floor and everything which continued like a really, really heavy period (although with no cramps) for two days. Turns out I had a haematoma. Had brown bleeding after the initial bright red heavy bleeding for about two weeks. Had a couple more scans and it appears to be disappearing and I'm not 18 weeks.

Hope it works out. If it doesn't, then I hope it does very soon x

crustyonion · 11/03/2012 23:40

I am so sorry. Sad It is awful when this happens. Take some time, dust yourself off and try again. It will happen. I had unsuccessful pregnancies the first two times, the next two resulted in my DCs. Some of us just have a harder time having children.

Keep on trying. It is worth the heartache. No matter how many times you are disappointed, the time you are successful will bring much, much more happiness.

Good luck.

lovebeinganana · 11/03/2012 23:44

So sorry keep being positive I had 3 mc followed by two successful pregnancies and two beautiful daughters.

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blondiemermaid · 12/03/2012 11:35

Thank you I need to hear the positives at the moment
I got rushed in to hospital last night as I passed out and was bleeding heavily it has ended in what I thought and I have lost the baby Sad
I have 2ds at home so know I can get pregnant and have the babies I jus don't know what's happened the last 2 times? I want to try again in few months but am terrified of it happening again.
Thank you again for the positive story's and hand holding they help me keep positive and that it will be alright xx

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Hpbp · 12/03/2012 15:10

remember that each pregnancy and live birth is a miracle, it will be OK and you will feel so overjoyed next time, try not to worry.
I had 2 mc before I had my DS, I could not enjoy the first trimester and accepted in my head that I was going to be a mum only when I felt the baby moving at 21 weeks.... shame :(
take it easy and we are all here to hold your hand
good luck

milk · 12/03/2012 15:37

My SIL had 2 DD, then had 2 MC, then went on this February to have a healthy baby boy :)

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