Hi, I am 28 weeks with DC2 and had a 3c tear with DS1. I only just found out it was 3c (as my notes were a bit confusing and the consultant reviewed them yesterday and said it must have been 3c). When I thought I had a 3b tear, the registrar told me that if I had no symptoms (which I don't), then I could choose CS or VB. But now with 3c the consultant thinks a CS would be better, as if I tore again they may not be able to repair it fully. I know that my chances of tearing are less this time, but that no-one can really predict the chance. I really want a natural birth, but am quite scared of long term incontinence. Have been told that they don't scan for scar tissue at my hospital. So I have some questions ........
Do you think I could get a scan for scar tissue done somewhere else? (I live in Devon).
Do you think knowing the size of the baby near term could be helpful? (they told me they won't do growth scans for me at my hospital)
If I tear again and they can't repair it properly, what are the chances of being beyond help and doubly incontinent? And is there a chance that I could be literally doing complete poos in my pants ?? !!
If I tear and they try to repair it and the outcome is not very good, can they do more ops in the future? What would they do?
Sorry for such a long post, but I really don't know how to start getting info about this !!