think I may need to know I'm not on my own! 28 weeks with 2nd (DD is 1). Had really bad cold and cough for the last month and pelvic floor has given up the ghost. Embarrassed at weeing every time I cough and at having to buy packs and packs or tena lady in my 30's (fed up of getting raised eyebrows from supermarket checkout women. DH is being very lovely and midwife just smiled and said very normal. arhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh