Driving myself mad!

[Sarah8101]

Hi, I'm presently 15+3 days pregnant. I had a scan at 13 weeks and hospital told me I was 14 weeks. Everything was fine, but for last half a wk I've been really anxious. I have bern since finding out but was getting better. I felt a few flutters from time to time but fact that I haven't for a week I'm getting very worried. This is my second pregnancy, I have a bump formed and nay sometimes be but mord tired, other than that I'm pretty much normal. Had pains last night but doc reckons that your womb stretches more in second pregnancy? I just don't know how to stop me from going insane, I have 16 week midwife next week, but what do I do between now and then?

Hi Sarah,
Not sure I can help much but I'm 16+2 and seem to have gone through all your thoughts/worries over the past few weeks/months.
Have had the pains of what might have been stretching etc and then suddenly nothing, not much to report on. Got worried as not sure if all was okay.
But I think this is normal. I went for my 16 week mw appointment today and all is fine, strong heart beat and now I have a small bump too and so all pretty normal.
You're probably fine but if you are really needing to put your mind at rest, maybe talk to your mw or go for a private scan?
Hope your anxiety eases soon and all is well!