Pregnant!!!!!!! :'(

[lj123]

Hi All, I am ooking for your advice.

Back in november i had a chemical pregnancy, i found out i was pregnant 10 days before my period was due, i only discovered this as i had spotting which is very unusual for me.

I have recently found out i am preganant again :) but wait, 2 days after my period.......... i am also having spotting which is what made me check, no clots, sore breasts on and off and cramping.
Im sooo worried this pregnancy will not take again!

Im also worried about visiting the doctors as they didnt believe me last time, i have had around 8positive tests over the last 3 days and one was a clearblue digital taken during the evening resulting in conception working out at 3-4 weeks.

What is my best bet? xx

I don't have any useful advise, hopefully someone will be along shortly

Fingers crossed everything is ok.

A very unmumsnetty (((hug)))

my fingers are well and truly crossed, im hoping for the best, broke my heart last time :( thanks :) xxxx

Hi lj, I am currently feeling the same.
I had a miscarriage last jan and found out I am pregnant again on tuesday. But started spotting on wed. I have been resting since then and spotting has stopped.
It is already different from your last pregnancy so thats something to look positive on.
Can you get an early scan, have you got an early pregnancy unit near you. Really hope everything is ok x

Well when I was preg with DD I had sore breasts and cramping, so it maybe ok.

Did you have cramping with your chemical preg?

I never experienced spotting, however there are ladies who have done

jellyspoon, your dates sound very similar to mine, im hoping the change in symptoms is positive, seeing my partner smile when i told him made me feel really guilty that it may not last again.i have work tomorrow but will be resting as much as i can.
i am spotting a lot less in the evenings like tiny bit of pink when i wipe. id love it to stop!
i did have cramping with my chemical.
i do have an early pregnancy unit near me but they only do doctor referal scans and id need to be at least 6-7 weeks :(
xx

I know what you mean about seeing how happy your partner was, my dh was so happy too but feel like I should be able to give him that. We have been trying for 2 years took 12 months to concieve and only lasted a few days after bfp. Its like it never existed, then took another 12 months to fall pregnant this time only to start bleeding after one day. This time feels different though, I do keep thinking what if i'm not even pregnant.
About the early pregnancy unit, just be a bit vague about the dates and place yourself closer to 6 weeks not everyone knows dates etc, only thing with that is might be too early to see anything.
Fingers crossed for us both its just so hard not knowing isn't it x

I have decided to wait until next week and if im still preggers ill go to the doctors. hopefully no more bleeding!
Fingers and toes crossed :) xxx

I will do another test wednesday, fingers crossed for me :) xx

I've no experience of this or any helpful advice to give - but good luck!

How have you got on lj?

So far still spotting when wiping, i went to see the doctor and he has arranged a scan for me wednesday the 8th, i have fingers crossed but im going to test up until Tuesday morning just incase anything happens.
I just took a first response and it was really faint so ill take the other in the morning! :(

I took a clearblue today which came up a very positive and got to work and started bleeding but its red this time!!!! i think this is over for me :( :(
I think i will keep my scan wednesday unless i loose more blood but part of me hopes that if theres a problem i will notice something odd even if they cant say anything to me :(

Oh dear.

I hope it's not the worst.

Fingers crossed x