Bleeding and only saw sac

[Sussy83baby]

Hi I started Spotting on boxing ( Monday) and no one would help me till the wed, had scan I should have been 11 weeks but only saw sac and wasn't showing anywhere near 11 weeks, on the Sunday new years day I had a really heavy bleed where I couldn't get off toilet for over 3 hours and was passing big clots, I have to go bk Thursday the 12th for scan I no deep down they will say its all gone but I got hope in the bk of my mind, don't no how to deal with it all Help

Hi Sussy

I'm afraid I can't be of any use, but didn't want to read and run. I'm sure someone more knowledgable will be along soon...

Sussy you poor love. This whole conception/pregnancy thing is just so stressful and emotional. I had a 7 week scan last week, but was only measuring 4mm (fetus should have been twice that). i've got another scan today and am praying that it's grown and everything is fine, but i'm worried that's not the case. i'm rigth there with you feel stressed and out of my mind with it all. I'll be saying a lot of prayers today, and i'll pray for you too. Best of luck and i hope you get some good news at your scan tomorrow. xxx

Sussy, I'm so sorry to hear it - so so sorry. I had a similar experience in March of last year (I vividly recall having to spend hours on the toilet due to the clots and bleeding). The way that I dealt with it was by speaking with friends, getting support on Mumsnet and understanding that it can happen and I was the unlucky one.

Hi Pocket1,

I am also 6-7 weeks, and am measuring 3mm. The sonographer and doctor seemed to think this is fine and no cause for concern.

Sussy, I hope you are ok. I am also going through a tough time with my pregnancy. I am going to tell my sister today so that I have some support to get through this time. Do you have someone in RL you can speak to for support?

Thanks everyone, my boyfriend finds it hard to talk about things and most of my family just say u will be ok just get on with things, I have a sister that had a miscarriage last year but I'm finding it hard to talk to her which is silly but all I want to do us cry, I no tomorrow will confirm that my baby has gone, just hoping for a miracle

sussy sending you a hug. Try and relax (I know that's pretty impossible but try a bit, deep breathes).

vanimal thank you you've given me true help. I am beside myself with worrying. Scan is later. Please God it's fine.