hello

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sorry its a.big moan!!!!
im 27 weeks with my 2nd and im absloutly exshausted can barley keep my eyes open.
my legs feet hands and wrists are swollen and its like mild pins and needles with what feels like my skin might pop!
i have a fuzzy headache what seems like all,the time and to top it iff today I have a upsett tummy and going to the loo alot!!
I have spd!
people keep saying im big and am I having twins,witch is ironic as baby us under regulat scans due to being small I was visiting a sick relative in hospital yesterday and the nurse said wow how long as I have a hell of a waddle on I said april 7th she was like my god is it twins are you sure god and then she said you quite swollen are they checking your blood pressure I think you should get it checked!!! she,said if thsts fluid youll floid the place ha ha I didnt find it thst funny!!
so im fed up and keep thinking I cant make it until the end I just want to cry!!
any advice!
ems xx

oh and im unhappy with my weight anyway!!xx

give your midwife a call today, you should have your BP and urine checked for protein and swelling, pins & needles , headache all need checking out

in the meantime, get some rest, have you got a DP/DH who can take care of your first so you can get some rest today and look after yourself?

Omg snap! Although I'm stressing about my weight. I'm not large and I get told my bump is small but I can't help but feel down and discusting. My legs are HUGE now, socks hurt. They must definatly be swollen too.but as for my DP, he hasn't changed at all since before I was pregnant, doesn't give me a break, doesn't help around house. Can't even pick his own boxers off the floor! Sorry for stealing thread with a huge moan. Just completely fed up, we already have a 2 and half year old DS, we're meant to be getting married in july and I am having major second thoughts. But feel dependant on him, especially as my dad is very old fashioned and desperate for us to get married, and my mum, well when I tell her I'm unhappy with my partner she has a go at me and says its all my fault and she's disappointed in me if I leave him due to her grandkids being in a 'broken' family. Feel so mixed up. Sorry!

are they about on the weekends?
I have a DH he has just left for football and my DD is having a nap im sat on the sofa feeling like a emotional wreck as im so tired!x

Yes...but sometimes I wish he wasn't as the house ends up a mess because he's home and doesn't tidy up after himself. So end up having A LOT to do on monday. I go to work saturday nights..for example will leave him a couple of jobs..get washing out washer and put to dry. I get in at about 2am, not done so I have to do it there and then to prevent from going smelly. Last sunday..I cooked a big roast dinner ( usually go out sundays for dinner) I was at work night before and at 6 sunday night to, I cooked the dinner all by myself, did all the pots and cleaning just left 3 meat trays, asked him to clean them as I hadn't had time, had to go to work, come home 1am, still not done, asked monday, still not done, I gave up and did them myself tuesday! Really fed up. Yet he won't talk to me, and when I have said a million times iv had enough, nothing changes. He says I'm being stupid and he does everything! Total lie.

sorry I meant are the midwives about on the weekends?x

yes, midwives are around at the weekends ! call antenatal ward for advice. the number will be on the front of your hand held notes