hi there im 36/37 weeks now and been getting pains in my back and tightenings but i cant feel them when they come on because iu have nerve damage at the front of my belly. doctor thinks its from baby pressing on them. baby is head down now sure if its engaged. on tuesday i went for a wee in the morning and had a gush of water but wasnt sure if it was my waters going or just a long week. yesterday morning i had a little bit of clear jelly that i found. and then the pains were 10 mins apart but it was all in my back but when i felt my belly it was rosk solid then after a few minutes it got softer again, am i in early stages of labour, i have rang midwives but to be honest they didnt helo me or tell me what i should be looking for or when i should come in. not usre if this midwife was still on night shift and she couldnt be bothered speaking to me but now i dont want to ring them back to talk to someone as i feel like im being stupid. please help