SHould I care what others think if I was to have baby number 4? I have an 11 year old dd, a 9 year old dd and a 4 year old ds but I spend my time thinking maybe people will think badly of us. My dad is VERY hypocritical which is laughable coz he is an alcoholic and didnt even bring me up after my mum died when i was 5. I am 1 of 4 and have 3 older brothers who have 2 kids each and I dont know what they will say. I know my dh parents will be fine coz they always have been but you never know things could change, maybe i am being silly but somethimes these things weigh heavy on your mind. SPoke hypothetically to my 2 dd and they both said they would love a baby bro or sis and my ds said he would love a bro to play with and share his bedroom with. Maybe i should stop worrying about others but I have spent ALL my life like this. I work part time and hope i would be able to return to this but would have to see how it went, just cant be a**ed with the agro and worried about my figure as well as it has taken a long time to get back into shape and will having a fourth ruin it altogether???? Abit shallow i know but all these things are wizzing round my head giving me 1 BIG headache, any ideas???? :D