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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 04/10/2011 12:53

We need a new thread already.

I hope this thread will give support to those suffering from the Horrors of
Hyperemesis, and that it will help to talk to other sufferers and those who have survived it.

There is no such thing as tmi here - the nature of the illness means that you have to be graphic when discussing it - and feel free to moan all you wish. You have reason to!

I want to thank FluffyWhiteKittens MOH Grumblin LA Caramel NitNat Coconuts Luce Grandma TheOnly and current sufferers MaryLou PearlFeekerry and many others who have been invaluable on the former threads. My apologies to anyone I've rudely overlooked, I daren't keep gabbling too long, or I might put off current sufferers.

Remember, when you are at your worst, the words from the Eastern story: - 'This Too Shall Pass.' It will...

Below is some brilliant information from MOH's website www.pregnancysicknesssos.co.uk. However, if you don't feel up to reading it now, feel free to skip it for now and have a good moan.

Hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) is a severe form of pregnancy sickness which affects between 1 and 3% of pregnant women. Historically, it was mistakenly thought to be a psychosomatic illness and women were treated as though they had a psychotic disorder. This view has been comprehensively disproven by numerous research papers in recent decades, and it is now known to be an illness of organic origin, although its causes have yet to be fully understood. There is a persistent common belief that no drugs should be given to women in the first trimester of pregnancy. This is not true. There are a number of effective anti-emetic (anti sickness) drugs which can safely be taken in early pregnancy. Unfortunately, the erroneous views that HG is a psychosomatic conditions and that no drugs are safe in the first trimester still persists in many places, shockingly, even amongst GPs and midwives. Sadly, many women still come across unsympathetic health professionals who are ignorant of current treatment methods.

How do I know if I have HG?
If you are suffering from persistent nausea and/or vomiting which is preventing you from eating and/or drinking then you may be suffering from HG. With ordinary nausea and vomiting of pregnancy (NVP), the sickness does not interfere with your ability to eat and drink enough, you should not be losing weight and you should be able to continue to care for yourself and your family although you may not be feeling too great. With HG, sufferers often need help caring for themselves, never mind look after their family. The illness can be completely debilitating for weeks or even months. If you're not sure, the HER foundation website who have a fact sheet to help you determine whether or not you are suffering from HG
www.helpher.org/mothers/hyperemesis-or-morning-sickness/index.php

Diagnosis is important as you will inevitably become dehydrated and you will need to be admitted to hospital for IV rehydration. Starvation is another risk. When your body burns fat for energy, it produces chemicals called ketones which can be detected in your urine. You can monitor your levels of starvation using ketosticks, available from pharmacies. You pee on the stick and it monitors your levels of ketones. If levels are high, you should tell your doctor or midwife. If you are worried about dehydration and ketone levels and you can't see your doctor or midwife, you can go to A&E.

Facts and Figures and FAQs

HG is worse in the first trimester for the majority of sufferers, though a significant proportion (10 ? 20%) suffer for the entire duration of the pregnancy. If you have close relatives (mothers, sisters) who have had HG, you are also at significantly higher risk of being a sufferer yourself. HG is the most common cause of hospitalisation of pregnant women in the first trimester.

Is it worse carrying a boy or a girl?
There is conflicting evidence as to whether having a boy or a girl makes HG worse, some studies say boys, some say girls.

Is it worse with twins?
Yes there is evidence that carrying more than one baby makes HG worse.

Will my baby be ok?
Babies born to HG mothers are usually absolutely fine. If you lose some weight during the first trimester the risks for the baby are low as it does not need much nutrition at this time and your body should have enough stores from before your pregnancy. However, if you continue to to lose weight due to lack of treatment or failed treatment, then there is an increased risk of low birth weight or pre-term birth. Studies show that this is a risk for women who are severely ill, are dehydrated for long periods and lose more than 10% of their body weight.

There is also growing evidence of long term health effects in some children born to mothers who suffer malnutrition in pregnancy. In some cases this is not evident until adulthood with increased risk of chronic conditions such as diabetes and hypertension.
For more information see forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=18 and www.helpher.org/hyperemesis-gravidarum/complications/fetal-programming.php

I've heard that being sick is a sign of a healthy pregnancy, is this the case with HG?
You will often be told that morning sickness is a good sign and you should be happy that you're feeling sick. This is generally the case with normal NVP, however, it is not the case with untreated HG. There is actually a higher risk of pre-term birth and low birth weight. However, continuing to feel sick may be a sign that the pregnancy is still progressing. Some women with HG who miscarried reported that the first sign was that they suddenly stopped feeling sick.

What are the treatments?
Initially you will be advised to use non-pharmacoligical strategies which are similar to the general advice given to any pregnant women suffering from nausea. These include eating little and often, eating protein-rich, low-fat meals, avoiding triggers of nausea such as strong smells and getting enough rest. You can try ginger, seabands (accupressure wristbands used for travel sickness) and extra doses of vitamin B6. Avoid getting out of bed in the morning without something in your stomach such as a tea biscuit or cracker. Some women find that these give relief in the initial stages of HG but they become ineffective once the illness is in full swing.

The next line of treatment is prescribed antiemetics such as phenergan, cyclizine, stemetil and ondansetron. For many women these work well and control the nausea and vomiting enough for them to eat and drink normally and regain some of their lost weight. Many can even return to normal life. You may find that one antiemetic on its own is not effective and you may need to try different combinations but you can discuss this with your doctor. Even with antiemetics, you will probably still need to use coping strategies such as getting extra rest, eating small frequent meals and avoiding triggers when the HG is at its peak. If you are dehydrated, you may be admitted to hospital for IV fluids. Minerals and vitamins can be added to the drip to replace any you may have lost, as well as antiemetics.

Unfortunately, antiemetics don't work for everyone. If they are ineffective, you should be referred to an obstetrician (if you haven't been already) for the next line of treatment, which will probably be steroids. These carry a small risk of cleft palate, but this will be discussed with your doctor. In a small number of cases even this is not effective and drastic treatments such as feeding with a tube directly into the stomach may have to be considered.

My GP is unsympathetic and refuses to prescribe me drugs - what should I do?
Unfortunately this experience is all too common. In this case you should see another GP if possible. You should also ask for a referral to an obstetrician. If you remain untreated and become dehydrated, you can have yourself admitted to A&E for IV fluids and ask to be seen by an obstetrician.

Do alternative remedies work?

Some women are greatly helped by alternative medicine, particularly Homepathy and Acupunture. Some women can claim to have had the illness 'stopped in its tracks' by Acupunture, but success varies between individual patients and it tends to be expensive. These remedies are worth a try if you can afford it but have a back up plan incase it doesn't work.

How long will this last for?
For most women, HG peaks in the first trimester and tails off or disappears completely later in the pregnancy. The usual advice for morning sickness is that it will improve after 12 weeks. The majority of HG sufferers find that it takes longer than this. Unfortunately, some women suffer severely for the entire pregnancy. Others find that it improves, but they suffer from nausea and occasional vomiting until birth. Relapse is quite common especially if you have tried to return to your normal busy life. There is a great temptation to make up for lost time and become very active once you start to feel better, but this very often leads to the nausea returning. You should be very careful about resuming work and normal household activities even if you feel as though you're up to it. Be careful too about stopping your medication, do it very gradually and resume at the first sign of the condition returning. You may have to continue to take it for the entire pregnancy to prevent a relapse.
All I can drink is coke, I'm worried that I'm not eating a healthy diet.

Through pregnancy, we are bombarded with advice about what to eat and what not to eat. Women with HG often find that the list of food and drinks that they can keep down is very small and not at all from the healthy options. For some reason, women with Hyperemesis ofen find sweet and salty foods ie, sweet drinks like coke, and crisps, are more likely to stay down than healthy foods. Their peculiar diet can lead to disapproving comments and the incorrect assumption that this is how they normally eat.
Various women find different drinks acceptable. Coke (often left to go flat) Lucozade, lemonade, milkshakes and IronBru, Dr Pepper, orange squash, apple juice, lime juice, ice cubes made of flat coke or just tapwater, ice lollies and sips of tepid water can help in keeping rehydrated. 

When the illness is at its worst during the early hormonal surges - typically between eight and ten weeks- then it is difficult to retain any liquids and you may need to be hospitalised for rehydration at about this time. 

When solids do become bearable,jelly, tinned fruit, ice lollies, ice cream, crisps, fish fingers, potato cakes, crumpets, soda bread and similar potato based or salty foods have often been found to be acceptable.

The important thing to remember at this time is that it doesn't matter what you eat or drink, the crucial thing is that you eat or drink something. Don't forego something because you are worried that it's bad for you. In a normal diet, too much salt and sugar is bad for you, but when you consume nothing else, this may be your only source of calories, fluid and salt for the day. Instead of berating yourself for your unhealthy diet, congratulate yourself that you have kept something down because your body needs it. If you are able to take vitamin tablets or syrups, then do so but most women find that large multivitamin tablets make the nausea worse. You may be able to get vitamins that dissolve under your tongue which you may be able to tolerate. If and when you begin to feel better, you can start to re-introduce more healthy food.

Will it go away when I give birth?
The good news is that for the vast majority of sufferers the physical symptoms of HG disappear completely as soon as the baby is born. You should be aware though that it is not unknown for the nausea to persist after birth especially if you have been severely ill. If this occurs, speak to your doctor. For women who suffered persistent, long term nausea and vomiting, it may take some time to restore energy levels and nutritional reserves. Moreover, while the physical symptoms may leave, the trauma of HG can leave an emotional legacy for many women, especially when combined with the rigours of caring for a baby. If you have any concerns, speak to your doctor or midwife. Don't feel that you should just be able to pick yourself up and get on with things, if you're having problems you are entitled to seek support.

Will I get it in my next pregnancy and will it be the same?
Unfortunately, having HG in one pregnancy puts you at a high risk of suffering in subsequent pregnancies although it is possible to escape it. Some women find that the HG gets better in subsequent pregnancies, whereas others find it stays the same or gets worse. There is really no way of knowing how your pregnancies will relate to each other.

Can I do anything to prepare for HG incase I get it again in my next pregnancy?
The HER website has a page of advice on preparing for your next pregnancy. forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=17. If you had medication which worked for you in your previous pregnancy, make sure that you have it ready to take as soon as you feel ill. Studies show that the quicker you get on top of the sickness, the better the medication works. Because HG can start within days of missing your period, see your GP as soon as you know you're pregnant.

Useful sources of information
The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists in the UK have no guidelines on the treatment and management of HG. However, the American College of Obs/Gynae (ACOG) and the Society of Obs/Gynae of Canada (SOGC) have published guidelines which can be found at the following sites

www.sogc.org/guidelines/public/120E-CPG-October2002.pdf 

www.guideline.gov/content.aspx?id=10939

Pregnancy Sickness Support is a UK based organisation run by GPs and midwives with direct experience of HG. They have a helpline which you can call for advice ? if nobody answers you leave a message and a midwife will call you back. They will be able to answer your questions about treatments and they keep a note of doctors around the country who are known to be sympathetic to HG sufferers and are willing to treat it with medication. Their website is at www.pregnancy sicknesssupport.org.uk

The Hyperemesis Education and Research Foundation (HER) is a US based foundation which was formed by HG survivors and has a mission to research the causes of HG and provide information and support for other sufferers. They have links to the latest scientific research and are actively involved in funding research, although you usually have to live in the USA to take part. There are loads of threads on every topic related to HG from women who have been through it, including very useful information about which treatment regimes worked. Their website is at www.hyperemesis.org.
Dealing with well meaning but unhelpful advice

Women with HG are often told by friends and family that it's just morning sickness, a normal part of pregnancy and you just have to put up with it. Many HG sufferers report extreme frustration at being advised to try ginger, dry crackers or eat little and often. Most of them have tried every remedy they can think of to no avail. Because most women are familiar with NVP, there is often an attitude of, well I had morning sickness and I just got on with it. HG sufferers are often left with the feeling that they are whingers and malingerers and that if only they could adopt a positive attitude then they would be fine. This can lead to further depression in what is already a depressive condition. In order to deal with this, it is important that the HG sufferer has some supportive friends or family who can firmly but politely fend off these comments. The sufferer will often have no energy to deal with it herself. If possible explain to the person giving the advice that you are not suffering from morning sickness, you are suffering from a condition called hyperemesis gravidarum.

I have never known anyone with HG. Where can I talk to women who understand how I feel?
There is a support thread on the talk boards here (ask MT to add link) which is run by sufferers and ex-sufferers. There are discussions of practical issues such as tips for coping and medication but the real value of this forum is that you get sympathy and understanding from people who know exactly what you're going through. If you just want to moan or let off steam, you are free to do so and nobody will hold it against you. Comments are also welcome from relatives, partners, friends and carers of HG sufferers. The HER website also has talk boards at forums.helpher.org/. There is also a UK based yahoo group called Bloomingawful at health.groups.yahoo.com/group/bloomingawful/

Finally from me, here's a list of due dates. Do add yourself when you feel up to it.

ElliottsMummy: EDD 25/9/11
Mancbird: EDD 08/10/11
AgBag: EDD 18/10/11
HeftyMutha: EDD 28/10/11
Littlewizz: EDD 6/11/11
CakeForBreakfast: EDD 07/11/11
Marylou: EDD 9/11/11
MotherofPearl: EDD 17/11/11
Eggy: EDD 30/11/11
LadyOTCM: 01/12/11
Diddygirl: EDD 19/12/11
Bensgirl: EDD
Alias: EDD ??/12?11
m1nn1e: EDD ??/01/12
Angel: 16/01/12
Seapie: 30/01/12
Louby86: EDD 17/02/12
MummyMccar: 23/02/12
Feekerry 19/03/2012
Magnum White 26/03/2012
Helibee 25/04/2012
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spannermary · 24/12/2011 14:23

Merry Christmas everybody! Xxx

MotherofPearl · 24/12/2011 18:41

Hi everyone,
Wishing you all as happy a Christmas as possible under the circs - hope everyone manages to survive all the food and smells. As Lucinda says, remember how different next Christmas will be. We all get to the pink castle eventually.
To those already in the pink castle - cheers! Wine
xxx

theonlyhb2 · 24/12/2011 22:18

merry Christmas everyone! xx

theonlyhb2 · 24/12/2011 22:19

ps. i went to the pub tonight, full of drunk idiots! Glad I am still not drinking and was home by 8pm with a KFC. You not missing anything out there, girls! :O

LucindaE · 25/12/2011 21:27

Well, everyone, I hope you have had a bearable Christmas (glances anxiously about face. I hope Bakewell read below, and Toddle Cosmogirl Clandy SMK Horsely Seapie and Everyone coped OK today...
Lucinda
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theonlyhb2 · 27/12/2011 00:41

hoping lack of posts is a good thing! Been lovely few days. Today i went shopping and enjoyed it for the first time for a year. Even found me some clothes. This will be you next year! Have a tumble dryer arriving Friday which i am proper excited about. Also got a new dining table and chairs so now an official grown up :) gentle hugs for all x

smk84 · 27/12/2011 15:29

Hi all, hope you had a lovely Christmas (as lovely as possible !).
Sorry to have been out of touch for so long, have had friends and their children staying over christmas. To say it's been manic would be an understatement. I had some sort of miracle when they arrived, as I found that I could all of a sudden function normally ! And since then, I have been eating well and been up and about! I really hope that people are getting better, and if not that you are getting the support you need (bakewell have you had any luck with the meds? I really sympathise). xx

horseynewmum · 27/12/2011 17:27

Hi all hope you had a good xmas. I went to my mums and only got back last night but I can safely say I survived, but think this was with a mixture of meds and being spoilt by having my every need pampered to. It was a lovely family xmas. We ended up playing monopoly for 5 hrs xmas eve with my mum and 2 bros and DH and it was a good laugh (getting my 2 bros to be in the same room without killing each other is impossible, so that was a miracle).
Xmas dinner was hard the smell of brussells set me off but after an hour sleep I felt better.

Even tho I'm not due till May we going to get the nursery decorated and shelfs etc in while DH is off work as he on shifts till baby due and won't have much time ad then once he goes back I can have something to focus on.

Enough about me how is everyone else? hope you had a bareable xmas.

love to all

LucindaE · 27/12/2011 19:01

Hello Everyone, well, I hope everyone is at least still alive...
SMK this is wonderful news about improvement, my goodness, who would have thought it, is there such a thing as Christmas wishes coming true?1 Smile
Horsey Sympathies about sprouts,I hope you were able to eat something? and glad Christmas was bearable. Lol aout brothers. We played Monopoly too, my daughter thinks she is too sophisticated for it these days, but she reverted to it for the day. My token is always the dog, who is as talkative as the donkey in Shrek (or however you spell it)...
TheOnly You have been busy in the sales. Lovely to hear from you...
I hope Bakewell and Toddle got suitable meds to help them through.
Lucinda
xx

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LucindaE · 29/12/2011 09:47

I hope the fact that it's been very quiet on here is a good sign Xmas Hmm.
Lucinda
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horseynewmum · 29/12/2011 12:35

Hi lucinda i've been quiet as think the fun and games of xmas has caught up with me and i'm just resting and sleeping now trying to catch up lol

LucindaE · 29/12/2011 18:21

Hi, Horsey so glad you are alive, anyway! How are the horses, is the other owner covering OK for them?
Lucinda
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horseynewmum · 29/12/2011 19:20

The owner has cut all ties with me and to be honest I think its better for me mentally not to know whats happening with them as it might make me try and take them back on. I've been round horses full time since I was 16 so now at 25 I can safely say I should grow up and now have something else that will soon replace the time and money spent lol

LucindaE · 29/12/2011 19:23

Horsey That sounded a bit mean of her, oh dear! I love horses too, but have never had one. Never mind, you need to concentrate on caring for yourself...
Lucinda
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theonlyhb2 · 30/12/2011 12:37

horsey, smk, glad you both survived christmas! always lots of resting needed after :) smk hopefully this is it on the way out for you and horsey smell of brussells is bad at any time!

i don't think you ever grow up with horses, my aunt is 64 and still has 2!

hope everyone else survived and are planning on being asleep by 11pm tomorrow for the greatest anti climax since last new years eve ;)

fluffywhitekittens · 31/12/2011 13:38

Hello everyone, sorry I haven't posted for ages.
Seems like most of you survived Christmas, Theonly did baby have a fab first Christmas?
Here's wishing everyone as good and healthy New Year as possible.
I was sorting my cupboards out yesterday and found a stash of cyclizine and metaclopromide, bad memories :(
But remember there is light at the end of the tunnel and hopefully you are all getting the meds and support you need.
Gentle cyber hugs from the pink castle, that now has a room of Sylvanians and a bouncy zebra along with the fluffy cushions :)

LucindaE · 01/01/2012 15:39

Hello Fluffy TheOnly and thanks for messages of support. Hope Everyone is OK. Hopefully back from Mother's and restricted keyboard access on Tuesday.
Lucinda
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horseynewmum · 01/01/2012 17:31

Hi all and Happy New Year.

went out for a bit last night. Something has been bugging me since tho. We went out with a group of friends and one of them is due 4 days after me but her bump looks tiny compared to mine and a few of our friends said i looked further gone then what I am (21week). Now DH is convienced that I'm due early May rather then 23rd. Is it possible that dates can be that far out?

On the HG front the buffet set me off with the smell, only sick once. Wish someone told me we were sat next to it LOL

How everyone else?

bakewelladdiction · 01/01/2012 19:55

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply to me, it means a lot. I finally got ondansatron from the hospital after getting in a really bad way not keeping anything down for days. It is helping with the sickness but I still have the nause. My partner is struggling too with the housework as that's usually totally down to me. I am meant to be back at work on Tuesday and am self employed so am just hoping for a miraculous recovery! Happy new year to you all xx

smk84 · 02/01/2012 13:56

Hi everyone :) Happy New Year!
Hi bakewell so pleased you got the meds. Glad it is helping with the sickness. I do know though that the nausea is soooo rough. hopefully as the meds get into your system that will improve soon.
Horsey I doubt it, some bumps are just bigger than others, and I would think that yours is probably more pronounced with your weight loss anyway. Did your due date tie in with the date of your last period? Do you know when you ovulated?
As for me, I lasted until 1030 on nye ! But I am pleased to say that almost back to normal in the eating department. Now I am off to make a start on the mountain of housework that I got behind with. Back to work tomorrow after 2 months off !!

spannermary · 02/01/2012 16:01

HNY everyone! Well, I start my phased return to work tomorrow so naturally today I have thrown up... I know that's just nerves. Only 6 weeks to go till maternity leave kicks in though. So how hard can it be?! Wish me luck!

Hope you're all surviving the New Year - at least there'll be slightly less rich food around in the next few weeks. :)

horseynewmum · 02/01/2012 16:15

smk your probably right just me feeling big and yuck LOL

theonlyhb2 · 03/01/2012 10:53

Happy New Year!

waves at fluffy she did have a lovely Christmas thank you, 2 new babies in the family (first for 5 years) so did seem to be extra special.

Horsey don't worry about the bump! I actually put on just over 2 stone in pregnancy, same as my best friend, but you couldn't tell I was pregnant most the time. I got a lot of looks from people trying to figure out if I was fat or pregnant! I was back in my old skinny jeans 5 days after birth too, yet Bestie isn't after 5 weeks, despite having lost most her baby weight already. Some bodies hide it better, depends on the position of everything too. It really pisses me off when people make comments like that "oh are you sure your dates are right?!?!" Erm yes, thank you! Now rack off!

Spannermary oh you poor thing. I am surprised you are going thru with it! If you feel rough tomorrow GO HOME! I didn't go home as soon as I threw up after my first day back at work, stuck out the 4 hours, and spent the next 2 days in bed being sick. And then got a chest infection. Not trying to scare you, but DONT stay cos they make you feel guilty. Work is nothing compared to the baby growing in your belly. They can replace you at work, but no one can replace you at home and thats where you really matter :)

bakewell yay for drugs that work! Read the above too, no doing too much! I worry!

smk thats great you are still being able to eat! At 16 weeks i suddenly decided we were going for a fry up for breakfast, and half way thru eating it I remembered even the mention of bacon, let alone the smell of it, had made me sick for the past 10 weeks.

I really sympathise with you all. I realised how horrible and down and ill I felt this time last year, I knew I was bad but compared to this year, it really hits home. So sympathy is with you xxxx

theonlyhb2 · 03/01/2012 10:55

oh, how rude, LucindaE, I didn't wave madly at you! I am doing now though :) hope you had a nice new year

spannermary · 03/01/2012 16:48

Hello all! So I returned a little while ago from my first day at work since the end of September. I'm on a phased return, which meant I could go in late today - and leave early. Got home to find DH ready to make me a cuppa, and in time to sob my heart out at Casablanca.

Most of the time in school was spent discussing what needs to be done over the next 6 weeks before my mat leave! Much of it will be paperwork, so I'll be saved from loads of exhausting teaching, and instead will be able to do far less stressful report writing, assessment, planning and handover work.

I'm so relieved.

I just hope my stamina is up to it - but don't worry, theonlyhb2, if I am sick and need to take time off I will do just that. The most valuable lesson I've learned through this whole murky business is that it's really not all about me! There's a little man inside me who needs to be taken care of.

Feeling pretty proud of myself, and very pleased not to be in tomorrow.

Here's looking at you, kid!