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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 04/10/2011 12:53

We need a new thread already.

I hope this thread will give support to those suffering from the Horrors of
Hyperemesis, and that it will help to talk to other sufferers and those who have survived it.

There is no such thing as tmi here - the nature of the illness means that you have to be graphic when discussing it - and feel free to moan all you wish. You have reason to!

I want to thank FluffyWhiteKittens MOH Grumblin LA Caramel NitNat Coconuts Luce Grandma TheOnly and current sufferers MaryLou PearlFeekerry and many others who have been invaluable on the former threads. My apologies to anyone I've rudely overlooked, I daren't keep gabbling too long, or I might put off current sufferers.

Remember, when you are at your worst, the words from the Eastern story: - 'This Too Shall Pass.' It will...

Below is some brilliant information from MOH's website www.pregnancysicknesssos.co.uk. However, if you don't feel up to reading it now, feel free to skip it for now and have a good moan.

Hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) is a severe form of pregnancy sickness which affects between 1 and 3% of pregnant women. Historically, it was mistakenly thought to be a psychosomatic illness and women were treated as though they had a psychotic disorder. This view has been comprehensively disproven by numerous research papers in recent decades, and it is now known to be an illness of organic origin, although its causes have yet to be fully understood. There is a persistent common belief that no drugs should be given to women in the first trimester of pregnancy. This is not true. There are a number of effective anti-emetic (anti sickness) drugs which can safely be taken in early pregnancy. Unfortunately, the erroneous views that HG is a psychosomatic conditions and that no drugs are safe in the first trimester still persists in many places, shockingly, even amongst GPs and midwives. Sadly, many women still come across unsympathetic health professionals who are ignorant of current treatment methods.

How do I know if I have HG?
If you are suffering from persistent nausea and/or vomiting which is preventing you from eating and/or drinking then you may be suffering from HG. With ordinary nausea and vomiting of pregnancy (NVP), the sickness does not interfere with your ability to eat and drink enough, you should not be losing weight and you should be able to continue to care for yourself and your family although you may not be feeling too great. With HG, sufferers often need help caring for themselves, never mind look after their family. The illness can be completely debilitating for weeks or even months. If you're not sure, the HER foundation website who have a fact sheet to help you determine whether or not you are suffering from HG
www.helpher.org/mothers/hyperemesis-or-morning-sickness/index.php

Diagnosis is important as you will inevitably become dehydrated and you will need to be admitted to hospital for IV rehydration. Starvation is another risk. When your body burns fat for energy, it produces chemicals called ketones which can be detected in your urine. You can monitor your levels of starvation using ketosticks, available from pharmacies. You pee on the stick and it monitors your levels of ketones. If levels are high, you should tell your doctor or midwife. If you are worried about dehydration and ketone levels and you can't see your doctor or midwife, you can go to A&E.

Facts and Figures and FAQs

HG is worse in the first trimester for the majority of sufferers, though a significant proportion (10 ? 20%) suffer for the entire duration of the pregnancy. If you have close relatives (mothers, sisters) who have had HG, you are also at significantly higher risk of being a sufferer yourself. HG is the most common cause of hospitalisation of pregnant women in the first trimester.

Is it worse carrying a boy or a girl?
There is conflicting evidence as to whether having a boy or a girl makes HG worse, some studies say boys, some say girls.

Is it worse with twins?
Yes there is evidence that carrying more than one baby makes HG worse.

Will my baby be ok?
Babies born to HG mothers are usually absolutely fine. If you lose some weight during the first trimester the risks for the baby are low as it does not need much nutrition at this time and your body should have enough stores from before your pregnancy. However, if you continue to to lose weight due to lack of treatment or failed treatment, then there is an increased risk of low birth weight or pre-term birth. Studies show that this is a risk for women who are severely ill, are dehydrated for long periods and lose more than 10% of their body weight.

There is also growing evidence of long term health effects in some children born to mothers who suffer malnutrition in pregnancy. In some cases this is not evident until adulthood with increased risk of chronic conditions such as diabetes and hypertension.
For more information see forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=18 and www.helpher.org/hyperemesis-gravidarum/complications/fetal-programming.php

I've heard that being sick is a sign of a healthy pregnancy, is this the case with HG?
You will often be told that morning sickness is a good sign and you should be happy that you're feeling sick. This is generally the case with normal NVP, however, it is not the case with untreated HG. There is actually a higher risk of pre-term birth and low birth weight. However, continuing to feel sick may be a sign that the pregnancy is still progressing. Some women with HG who miscarried reported that the first sign was that they suddenly stopped feeling sick.

What are the treatments?
Initially you will be advised to use non-pharmacoligical strategies which are similar to the general advice given to any pregnant women suffering from nausea. These include eating little and often, eating protein-rich, low-fat meals, avoiding triggers of nausea such as strong smells and getting enough rest. You can try ginger, seabands (accupressure wristbands used for travel sickness) and extra doses of vitamin B6. Avoid getting out of bed in the morning without something in your stomach such as a tea biscuit or cracker. Some women find that these give relief in the initial stages of HG but they become ineffective once the illness is in full swing.

The next line of treatment is prescribed antiemetics such as phenergan, cyclizine, stemetil and ondansetron. For many women these work well and control the nausea and vomiting enough for them to eat and drink normally and regain some of their lost weight. Many can even return to normal life. You may find that one antiemetic on its own is not effective and you may need to try different combinations but you can discuss this with your doctor. Even with antiemetics, you will probably still need to use coping strategies such as getting extra rest, eating small frequent meals and avoiding triggers when the HG is at its peak. If you are dehydrated, you may be admitted to hospital for IV fluids. Minerals and vitamins can be added to the drip to replace any you may have lost, as well as antiemetics.

Unfortunately, antiemetics don't work for everyone. If they are ineffective, you should be referred to an obstetrician (if you haven't been already) for the next line of treatment, which will probably be steroids. These carry a small risk of cleft palate, but this will be discussed with your doctor. In a small number of cases even this is not effective and drastic treatments such as feeding with a tube directly into the stomach may have to be considered.

My GP is unsympathetic and refuses to prescribe me drugs - what should I do?
Unfortunately this experience is all too common. In this case you should see another GP if possible. You should also ask for a referral to an obstetrician. If you remain untreated and become dehydrated, you can have yourself admitted to A&E for IV fluids and ask to be seen by an obstetrician.

Do alternative remedies work?

Some women are greatly helped by alternative medicine, particularly Homepathy and Acupunture. Some women can claim to have had the illness 'stopped in its tracks' by Acupunture, but success varies between individual patients and it tends to be expensive. These remedies are worth a try if you can afford it but have a back up plan incase it doesn't work.

How long will this last for?
For most women, HG peaks in the first trimester and tails off or disappears completely later in the pregnancy. The usual advice for morning sickness is that it will improve after 12 weeks. The majority of HG sufferers find that it takes longer than this. Unfortunately, some women suffer severely for the entire pregnancy. Others find that it improves, but they suffer from nausea and occasional vomiting until birth. Relapse is quite common especially if you have tried to return to your normal busy life. There is a great temptation to make up for lost time and become very active once you start to feel better, but this very often leads to the nausea returning. You should be very careful about resuming work and normal household activities even if you feel as though you're up to it. Be careful too about stopping your medication, do it very gradually and resume at the first sign of the condition returning. You may have to continue to take it for the entire pregnancy to prevent a relapse.
All I can drink is coke, I'm worried that I'm not eating a healthy diet.

Through pregnancy, we are bombarded with advice about what to eat and what not to eat. Women with HG often find that the list of food and drinks that they can keep down is very small and not at all from the healthy options. For some reason, women with Hyperemesis ofen find sweet and salty foods ie, sweet drinks like coke, and crisps, are more likely to stay down than healthy foods. Their peculiar diet can lead to disapproving comments and the incorrect assumption that this is how they normally eat.
Various women find different drinks acceptable. Coke (often left to go flat) Lucozade, lemonade, milkshakes and IronBru, Dr Pepper, orange squash, apple juice, lime juice, ice cubes made of flat coke or just tapwater, ice lollies and sips of tepid water can help in keeping rehydrated. 

When the illness is at its worst during the early hormonal surges - typically between eight and ten weeks- then it is difficult to retain any liquids and you may need to be hospitalised for rehydration at about this time. 

When solids do become bearable,jelly, tinned fruit, ice lollies, ice cream, crisps, fish fingers, potato cakes, crumpets, soda bread and similar potato based or salty foods have often been found to be acceptable.

The important thing to remember at this time is that it doesn't matter what you eat or drink, the crucial thing is that you eat or drink something. Don't forego something because you are worried that it's bad for you. In a normal diet, too much salt and sugar is bad for you, but when you consume nothing else, this may be your only source of calories, fluid and salt for the day. Instead of berating yourself for your unhealthy diet, congratulate yourself that you have kept something down because your body needs it. If you are able to take vitamin tablets or syrups, then do so but most women find that large multivitamin tablets make the nausea worse. You may be able to get vitamins that dissolve under your tongue which you may be able to tolerate. If and when you begin to feel better, you can start to re-introduce more healthy food.

Will it go away when I give birth?
The good news is that for the vast majority of sufferers the physical symptoms of HG disappear completely as soon as the baby is born. You should be aware though that it is not unknown for the nausea to persist after birth especially if you have been severely ill. If this occurs, speak to your doctor. For women who suffered persistent, long term nausea and vomiting, it may take some time to restore energy levels and nutritional reserves. Moreover, while the physical symptoms may leave, the trauma of HG can leave an emotional legacy for many women, especially when combined with the rigours of caring for a baby. If you have any concerns, speak to your doctor or midwife. Don't feel that you should just be able to pick yourself up and get on with things, if you're having problems you are entitled to seek support.

Will I get it in my next pregnancy and will it be the same?
Unfortunately, having HG in one pregnancy puts you at a high risk of suffering in subsequent pregnancies although it is possible to escape it. Some women find that the HG gets better in subsequent pregnancies, whereas others find it stays the same or gets worse. There is really no way of knowing how your pregnancies will relate to each other.

Can I do anything to prepare for HG incase I get it again in my next pregnancy?
The HER website has a page of advice on preparing for your next pregnancy. forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=17. If you had medication which worked for you in your previous pregnancy, make sure that you have it ready to take as soon as you feel ill. Studies show that the quicker you get on top of the sickness, the better the medication works. Because HG can start within days of missing your period, see your GP as soon as you know you're pregnant.

Useful sources of information
The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists in the UK have no guidelines on the treatment and management of HG. However, the American College of Obs/Gynae (ACOG) and the Society of Obs/Gynae of Canada (SOGC) have published guidelines which can be found at the following sites

www.sogc.org/guidelines/public/120E-CPG-October2002.pdf 

www.guideline.gov/content.aspx?id=10939

Pregnancy Sickness Support is a UK based organisation run by GPs and midwives with direct experience of HG. They have a helpline which you can call for advice ? if nobody answers you leave a message and a midwife will call you back. They will be able to answer your questions about treatments and they keep a note of doctors around the country who are known to be sympathetic to HG sufferers and are willing to treat it with medication. Their website is at www.pregnancy sicknesssupport.org.uk

The Hyperemesis Education and Research Foundation (HER) is a US based foundation which was formed by HG survivors and has a mission to research the causes of HG and provide information and support for other sufferers. They have links to the latest scientific research and are actively involved in funding research, although you usually have to live in the USA to take part. There are loads of threads on every topic related to HG from women who have been through it, including very useful information about which treatment regimes worked. Their website is at www.hyperemesis.org.
Dealing with well meaning but unhelpful advice

Women with HG are often told by friends and family that it's just morning sickness, a normal part of pregnancy and you just have to put up with it. Many HG sufferers report extreme frustration at being advised to try ginger, dry crackers or eat little and often. Most of them have tried every remedy they can think of to no avail. Because most women are familiar with NVP, there is often an attitude of, well I had morning sickness and I just got on with it. HG sufferers are often left with the feeling that they are whingers and malingerers and that if only they could adopt a positive attitude then they would be fine. This can lead to further depression in what is already a depressive condition. In order to deal with this, it is important that the HG sufferer has some supportive friends or family who can firmly but politely fend off these comments. The sufferer will often have no energy to deal with it herself. If possible explain to the person giving the advice that you are not suffering from morning sickness, you are suffering from a condition called hyperemesis gravidarum.

I have never known anyone with HG. Where can I talk to women who understand how I feel?
There is a support thread on the talk boards here (ask MT to add link) which is run by sufferers and ex-sufferers. There are discussions of practical issues such as tips for coping and medication but the real value of this forum is that you get sympathy and understanding from people who know exactly what you're going through. If you just want to moan or let off steam, you are free to do so and nobody will hold it against you. Comments are also welcome from relatives, partners, friends and carers of HG sufferers. The HER website also has talk boards at forums.helpher.org/. There is also a UK based yahoo group called Bloomingawful at health.groups.yahoo.com/group/bloomingawful/

Finally from me, here's a list of due dates. Do add yourself when you feel up to it.

ElliottsMummy: EDD 25/9/11
Mancbird: EDD 08/10/11
AgBag: EDD 18/10/11
HeftyMutha: EDD 28/10/11
Littlewizz: EDD 6/11/11
CakeForBreakfast: EDD 07/11/11
Marylou: EDD 9/11/11
MotherofPearl: EDD 17/11/11
Eggy: EDD 30/11/11
LadyOTCM: 01/12/11
Diddygirl: EDD 19/12/11
Bensgirl: EDD
Alias: EDD ??/12?11
m1nn1e: EDD ??/01/12
Angel: 16/01/12
Seapie: 30/01/12
Louby86: EDD 17/02/12
MummyMccar: 23/02/12
Feekerry 19/03/2012
Magnum White 26/03/2012
Helibee 25/04/2012
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MotherofPearl · 16/12/2011 12:19

Hi all,
Just a quick post to check in and offer commiserations to everyone suffering - it's awful to hear that so many of you are feeling so dreadful, and as NitNat says, nobody who's not been through it can really understand. I really sympathise with you, needinstructions. I think the emotional misery of HG is in some ways the worst bit. I felt like my whole personality changed, I was so low and unhappy all the time, and found it impossible to take pleasure from anything. But the good news, as everyone else has stressed, is that it WILL end, eventually, and it will be worth it. You will feel normal again.
Little Abel will be 3 weeks tomorrow, and he's a joy. Such a contented baby, and a good sleeper too. :) I think this is my reward for 9 months of HG horror! Hang in there everyone :)

horseynewmum · 16/12/2011 16:54

Hi all

need i fully understand how you feel. I dont have any other children but i still feel useless because i was like the magic fairy b4 this pregnancy and i would sort everything out and everyone relied on me to sort it to. God what a turn around my life is now with having to rely on others (not many of the people i've helped have returned the favour). They all say pregnancy suppose to be the happiest time of our lives, well they never had HG.

pearl 3 wks now. im so glad all going well this side of it.

today i feel like i have a hangover. stand up or not have head supported my world spins. (taken me half n hr to get comfy on sofa with laptop). Bit teary too. Been looking at baby pics of me as a happy baby all innocent ans unaware of what life held later on made me cry.

right im going to spin my way to loo as someone is tapping on my bladder AGAIN

LucindaE · 16/12/2011 20:26

Instructions Never apologise for moaning, moan all you like. I think it's what Dr's used to call 'physical depression' besides - things seem very hopeless, though you know it is temporary, it seems forever...I'm glad DH has at least apologised, but he really sounds as though he could do with having information about it being a serious illness put into his head, somehow...Hypnotic suggestons made when he is asleep lol? Try not to overdo it, but the fact that you felt a little better for a time is a good sign in itself that improvement may be on the horizon...
Horsey Really sorry people haven't reciprocated, but I believe other people will, life often seems to work out that you help people and someone later helps you. It is a horrible experience, but after going through this, other problems will seem easy to you.
Pearl Thanks so much for lovely message of support for current sufferers, so Abel is a sleeper too, you lucky thing? Smile
Magnum and MOH Good information.
Waves to Everyone anxiously...
Lucinda
xx

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smk84 · 16/12/2011 22:40

Hi all, just wanted to check in, say hello and say thank you all for being here. It's amazing how other threads die off, but this one never does and that's so reassuring. I am falling asleep writing this, but sending big hugs out to you need. I so sympathise and here is the place to let things out. After all it's very safe, and we understand the debilitating nature of this awful illness.
Be in touch again soon xx

LucindaE · 17/12/2011 12:07

SMK I'm so glad you find this thread a reliable reassurance...You are right, other threads are very good but do seem to die out...Here we plod along, intrepid, battling the Horrors of Hyperemesis...

I hope everyone is coping today?

Lucinda
xx

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Dazedandalittleconfused · 17/12/2011 12:52

Hi everyone. Hope you are all having an 'able to cope' day (seems silly to say 'good day' knowing that this is unlikely for most of us!) I went to dh's christmas party last night and felt ok-ish but am paying for it now.Felt ok when I woke up but everything has just come up and unfortunately throwing up doesn't seem to have offered me the relief that it sometimes does. I'm supposed to be doing my Christmas food shopping today aswell! I am still waitin fr my ondansetron and they have had to give me stemetil in the meanwhile as it was all they had in stock. Hope it works but it did nothing forme in my pregnancy with ds. Dh and I have decided that he can go in for the snip after this baby is born- am never doing this again!

theonlyhb2 · 17/12/2011 19:00

lucinda its funny you say about vomiting with migraines being worse after HG as I am very rarely sick with them, yet this time couldn't keep anything down and was retching all the time. thought of all you ladies here, was a horrible flash back! they have never lasted 4 days either. Lovely HG side effect!

on the plus side, a lot of my friends have had babies recently and all of them are finding the first few weeks hard whereas I found it like a holiday! Imagine it will be the same for most of you too, after spending so long in bed, you couldn't get me in there after the birth :)

theonlyhb2 · 17/12/2011 19:13

nitnat yay so glad you are well. How is little Matilda cos she was ill for a while wasn't she? Another HG Teacher survivor :) and fellow puke n pee sufferer ;) Christmas will be FAB this year!

Bike congrats on yr daughter :) lovely to hear from you again

theonlyhb2 · 17/12/2011 19:18

needinstructions sending a hug your way and a kick for your DH.

moP so glad Abel is doing well, so nice to come back here and see old survivors! proof we all do go back to "normal" after

horsey yr posts make me giggle, remind me of me!

Was a year ago today my HG started, only 4 days after finding out was pregnant. so feeling a little bit emotional and want to show you all support cos its SHIT not being able to eat any of that yummy food over Xmas (or be in the same house as it cooking). Lots of you I never mention by name but I do read every post xxx

Clandy · 17/12/2011 20:14

Hello ladies done fab news from me! I had my 12 week scan yesterday and am 11.3 and since yesterday I have been bouncing off the walls feeling just like me again! No sickness no grumpiness no tiredness!!! At first thought it may be excitement of holidays and scan and snow but after a huge curry with rice naan and cake for afters I think I can say I am no longer sick!!! I could cry with happiness Smile DP said it's good to have me back!!!

So thank you for all the support not sure could have got this far without you all... Least not with my sanity and stomach intact Grin and I don't think if it wasnt for your advice and support that I would have gone to the doctor to get the tablets that made the last 7 weeks at least bearable. Hope everyone begins to feel better and I will try my best to pop in to offer advice to others where I can but I think I am off to the land of happy pregnant lady!!! Thank you all again Smile (fingers crossed this is not too premature and I'm back on tomorrow after a horrible night Grin) xxx

needinstructions · 17/12/2011 21:10

Wow, some lovely positivity from everyone - Clandy it is wonderful you are feeling so much better, great to hear from all those enjoying their babies, and another thank you to everyone for just being there and sympathetic.

Talked to a mum today who was telling me that she loved being pregnant so much that she'd even considered being a surrogate. How happy and vital she felt all that time etc and I have to admit to feeling a really deep sadness that pregnancy is not something I will ever enjoy. But... this was only a small part of a conversation that went onto other aspects of our lives and children (our eldests are friends) and it was actually reassuring to realise that - although obviously difficult for us now - whether you have "good" or "bad" pregnancies is a relatively fleeting thing that has no impact on our future lives. So bizarrely, I actually felt better for the chat, and am doing much better today.

ps Dazed, I hope you postponed your food shopping for another day - or sent someone else out to do it for you!

horseynewmum · 18/12/2011 11:00

Hi all. Seems to be more postive of lately which is good. Clandy i'm so glad your feeling back to your ususal self.

only I try and make fun of most situations as its the best way to get through life, just unfortuantly at the start of HG i couldnt find anything funny but with the support of you lot, my GP and family i've started to see the funny side of things.

I got a xmas card from work yesterday in the post to thank me for all the hard work and wishing me and my family a merry xmas. They don't have a clue. Stuck it where it belongs. I had to laugh cause it proves they not taken in anything i've said in letters about how ill I am and how eating/travelling is a struggle so where the merry in that LOL.

Went to see some friends last night and on the way home my DH said to me while I was being sick in a bag how much better I looked. I'm still trying to work that one out too.

LucindaE · 18/12/2011 11:06

Instructions I am so glad your talk with a friend cheered you - for sure, it isn't much out of a lifetime, though it feels like a life sentence at the time. I've never heard of anyone who said it wasn't worth it, though...
Dazed So annoying they don't have the meds in. Did MOH say stemetil was far more effective if you took Vitamin B with it? She is our resident meds expert. Don't push yourself too much - do a little bit at a time...
TheoOnly Oh dear, really sorry that with you, as with me, the Hyperemesis seemed to make the vomiting with migraines worse, its foul, isn't it? Blood comes out of my nose and throat, just like old times. Glad you are looking forward to a happy Christmas with LO.
Feekerry Has been absent of late. I hope Tub and Everyone are OK.
Lucinda
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LucindaE · 18/12/2011 11:13

Horsey Forgot to say, poor old you, that puking in bags in a car is dismal, well, it's nice he thinks so lol...You are doing well at seeing the funny side now, anyway! Sounds as though work haven't got a clue, that is annoying. I'm hoping that things get better for you in the near future, after all, some people do get relief well after the twenty weeks (hopeful face).
Clandy Wonderful news that you feel so much better. I think even if you have relapses, the worst is behind you now.
Lucinda
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Clandy · 18/12/2011 13:08

Possibly spoke too soon as was sick this morning but the nausea seems so much better just takes me by surprise that I have to be sick Smile got more of an appetite so just have to take every day as it comes n see what happens.

Cosmogirl · 18/12/2011 18:33

Am really struggling I'm sorry to say :( nausea is so strong & constant. Taking 8 mg zofran as dr wouldn't let me increase dose. Positives r I am eating small amounts & I haven't vomited yet - am 6+1. due to see Gp on 28th. I really want to take edge off nausea. It is debililtating so as I can't take care of DD properly. Thankfully I am staying at my parents until DH finishes work until new year. Scared I'm not strong enough this time & very worried about DD & the impact on her. Basically wishing I'd never got pregnant.

Clandy · 18/12/2011 19:13

Oh no cosmo poor you. It's awful when you feel like a decision you made is effecting your child I felt awful about it with my dd and sometimes felt so tired and sick and grumpy I snapped at her for something really sully and felt like the worst mum ever Sad hopefully it won't last too long and glad to hear you are getting help from your mum and dad. I'm sure dd will be more worried about you than bothered that you can't do all the things you could before my dd comes into to the bathroom to ask if in ok bless her Smile plus your giving her someone to have fun and okay with and love so all will be forgiven if she is a little out out for a short while Smile

Cosmogirl · 18/12/2011 20:03

Thanks clandy. I'm lucky I have support. No idea how people manage without it & other kids to care for. It is taking everything I've got right now. I'm so pleased you r feeling better. It must feel great to see an improvement.

grumblinalong · 19/12/2011 10:07

Hey everyone - so so sorry for current sufferers. Myself and a few others nitnat, theonly and caramel on last years thread had it at this time of year - xmas adverts, food displays and general smells are awful with HG. Alongside the freezing weather. Sympathy to you all. I remember sitting sucking on an ice lolly when it was -10 outside because I couldn't keep fluids down.

My DD is 6 months now and is an utter star, actually her name means that in welsh Smile. I look at her daily and think she was well worth it but as I got sterilised I am all relaxed about it now!

Hope you can all keep Lucinda's mantra 'this too will pass' in your heads and carry on. This thread is so unjudgemental and supportive I wrote all sorts on it so hope you all find it as helpful and supportive.

MOH100 · 19/12/2011 12:16

Dear all, can I just announce the relaunch of www.pregnancysicknesssupport.org.uk. The website has been completely revamped and lots of new stuff added to it. You may recognise some of the content if you've looked at my www.pregnancysicknesssos.co.uk site, we're amalgamating the two sites so that my content is included in the main pregnancy sickness support site. Eventually my site will become defunct and we'll direct the URL to the main one. One of the new features is an interactive map showing where you can get support from the national support network. There's also information for partners and carers of HG sufferers - a good resource for those DHs and DPs who are either still in denial, or who are struggling to know what to do to help. The site is still being tweaked so if you have any comments, mention it in a post on this forum, and I'll pick it up. If you don't want it to be public, you can PM me.

LucindaE · 19/12/2011 12:49

Grumblin I remember so well your Christmas Pudding Display horrors and exit down a back alley Shock, your ice lolly when it was -10 outside, too, and you had to share a car sometimes with a woman with a puking phobia who nearly passed out when you had to make a quick exit from the car once. Poor you, then, but lucky you now with Seren, and a sleeper, too. I am so glad you found us on here of some help as you suffered throughout and it is so nice of you to come back and encourage people having a horrible Christmas.
MOH Great news about site. It sounds really good and informational (is there such a word?) Will sleigh down from the Pink Castle...
Cosmo Poor you, so sorry about nausea, I think in some ways that is almost worse than puking when it is relentless, though it doesn't usually cause the same dehydration dangers. I wonder why the dr is so cagey about increasing the dose, is it expense?
Clandy With puking continuing, then, not a great victory for meds, though if you suffer less it means a lot.
SMA I do hope things are not too bad with you, or Seapie, Horsey and everyone? I hope you don't get too many, 'At least your not on putting weight' infuriating remarks over Christmas Xmas Angry. Jelly is one festive food that is more bearable, and tinned fruit, and nibbles of crisps. Do people find soup bearable? I found the home made stuff not too bad, if thin...

Lucinda
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smk84 · 19/12/2011 13:17

Cosmo so sorry to hear that. Nausea takes over life so badly, perhaps you could ask to see another doc. I know what you mean about looking after another child, it's so hard !
I am about 16 weeks now and I think things are starting to feel better. Have been off meds for about 3 weeks and only been sick a handful of times since then. The nausea has taken longer to shift, and I still feel sick most of the time but it's definitely easing, esp in the p.m. / eve. The only other thing is that I feel so weak! Climbing the stairs results in needing to lie down still ! Bump is growing and feeling some movements :)

Clandy · 19/12/2011 19:11

I feel sooo much better though even with the slight puking I just feel like I have done energy still taking meds but cut down to two not been sick again today and only felt a little queasy when I got hungry!

Hope the sickness doesn't last too long for others my mum said she had it all the way through with my sister then only to 12 weeks with me even though it was worse and I seem to be following the same Smile

Clandy · 19/12/2011 19:13

Oh and smk how exciting that your feeling baby move I loved that feeling and cant wait for it again I lie really still sometimes to see if I can even though I know it's ages too early Grin

fleurelise · 20/12/2011 08:34

Clandy congrats on the great scan news - so happy for you :-)
and Smk that's exciting about the movements - can't wait to feel those first taps.. Cosmogirl, so glad to hear you have lots of support - have to say - it's an isolating time when you haven't got lots of people who understand how debilitating this is. Horsey it must be love when hubby thinks you look good even when puking into a bag. Mine just urgently suggests I get out of the car :-) xxx

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