My ds2 (3rd baby 3rd section) was transverse for ages (would occasionally switch for the fun of it) ,I was due to have him at 38 weeks on the dot I think, was having lots of appointments due to gestational diabetes. Nobody seemed that fussed really apart from one midwife who wanted to keep me in at 36 weeks
, I did decline tbh, although she did wear me down and I went in 2 days before my section, although I felt as welcome as a fart as she seemed to have not informed anyone she had ordered me to the ante-natal ward.
I stayed in for two nights before the section, which was quite lucky as I was having measurable contractions, probably would have panicked at home. Had section as planned despite contractions, although was so fucking sleep deprived (not due to ante-natal ward mind, it was very quiet) and fed up of hospital I discharged myself 36 hours after the birth.
Ante-natal is heaven compared to post.
I do understand why you are being kept in, but mine was unstable too and like I say only one midwife seemed to give the slightest shit
. I read the advice about getting down on hands and knees and shoving my bum in the air if my waters broke and phoning 999 and decided to risk it. I didn't have precedence for the whole early labour or waters breaking though, that might swing it.
I can't think of anything worse than being confined to hospital, but that is my hang up, good luck, hope your baby will play ball
.