need to know a few things, if you can help that would be great.
How many weeks were you when you went to the doctors to tell them you were/are pregnant and to book your antenatal care?
how long did you wait for you scan date and how long in advance from getting the date was your scan?
which hospital did you go to?
how many scans did you get?
how flexable are they with dads/your other children?
what was your experiece of the hospital/staff during pregnancy/birth/labour and afterwords?