Hi,
Today I had my 20 week scan and I was in there ages as the baby wouldnt get into a good position for some measurements (Also the lady doing it was a trainee so was probably slower more thorough too). At the end when she asked if I had any questions I didnt want to ask about the sex as I felt I had been in there ages (I was in a good 40 mins) and there would probably be loads of people waiting. Also the knees were high up so I wasnt convinced if anything could be seen in that Dept anyway.
I have been looking on line at a gender scan and it is the same price as a 4D scan so Im thinking I may as well go for the 4D scan as I get more for the same money (£80)
I know plenty of people dont find out before and they cope with not knowing whether to plan for a boy or girl (ie with things like names, clothes, colour of items such as car seat, paint for nursery etc), but I really wanted to know so I could start saying he or she.
Has anyone had one? Is it worth it? Or am I just better off waiting another 20 weeks or so to find out the baby's gender when its born?
Thanks