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Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

2nd, 3rd pregnancy did you start to show a lot earlier?

14 replies

mamaesi · 11/04/2011 20:25

I have heard that after your first your belly pops out sooner...I am wondering how much sooner?

tell me your experiences..

this is only my second but for various reasons I dont want to tell my family until 14 weeks...will i be able to hide it? also wondering how big I may be at my summer holidays...

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headfairy · 11/04/2011 20:27

I was in maternity jeans by 8 weeks! No chance of hiding it, I looked full term by the time of my 12 week scan

del1 · 11/04/2011 20:35

1st - didn't show untill 6 months.
2nd - 4 months
3rd - 3 months !!!! I am only 20 weeks and ,massive already

Gauchitaconpanza · 11/04/2011 21:02

1st - started showing at 5+ months.
2nd - 9 maybe 10 weeks Blush I'm almost 20wks now. They said it was normal after first pregnancy

mamaesi · 11/04/2011 21:11

Oh no! My first I didnt show until about 5+ months...

am seeing my mother at about 10 weeks...

didnt that bother any of you to tell people before you even have the scan to see if everything is ok?

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headfairy · 11/04/2011 21:42

I didn't tell anyone because I'd had 2 mcs before. I think when you're at that stage people are bit embarrassed to blurt out and ask you, because if you're not it's excrutiating. I did make a couple of comments along the lines of "God I've got to stop eating bread, I'm soooo bloated"

TerrysNo2 · 11/04/2011 21:47

10 weeks and I am huge, mainly in the evenings though!! Smile

Jojay · 11/04/2011 21:47

2nd pg - not much earlier than with DC1.

3rd pg - much earlier but then we found out that it's twins......Grin

Gauchitaconpanza · 11/04/2011 22:19

We only told people after the first scan. I just kept wearing loose clothes and/or long scarves that would cover the bump Grin

otchayaniye · 12/04/2011 07:15

First one I showed earlier and put on lots of weight (4 stone by the end) despite throwing up every single day until I had her at 8 months.

This one I'm 22 weeks and look like I've swallowed a galia melon and that's it. Have lost weight (still throwing up) and can't budge up from 9 stone. Started to show, as such, about 2-3 weeks ago.

dribbleface · 12/04/2011 09:20

With my 1st and this one i showed at 12-14 weeks. I was asked directly but just laughed it off. I wore loose clothes, most people won't ask (its too risky), now i'm 15 weeks, and wearing tighter clothes lots have asked but thats fine by me.

sunface · 12/04/2011 09:22

i'm very similar to del1

1st - 6months
2nd - 5months
3rd - 3months and in Maternity work trousers already (15wks now!)

i'm gonna be huge!!!!

johsibo · 12/04/2011 11:44

1st somewhere 6 months
2nd bit earlier than 6 months and I felt smaller the whole time!
3rd now 16weeks and already showing. Can wear still the same clothes but pretty much sure I will need to go shopping for some maternity trousers soon.

It´s very normal to be showing earlier if you are not some "body builder" :o ! Haven´t told no one yet, I will want to wait until 20 weeks if possible.

johsibo · 12/04/2011 11:47

sorry, now 3rd and 17 weeks :)

HalleLouja · 12/04/2011 12:29

Didn't show with no 2 until 19 weeks-ish wearing a tight top. Now 30 weeks and have a large bump - larger than last time so not feeling too smug now...

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