Am having a homebirth and am a bit stuck.
Have always had DH there and my mum, last time my sister came too incase the older kids woke (they didn't)
But I found them to be a bit irritating throughout and have been struggling with my mum lately so not sure if I want her there this time.
However i'm due during school holidays so in all likelihood i will need someone else here apart from DH.
If its the day time its not so bad as I can call my mum and ask her if she will pick the kids up and take them to hers.
but if its night - as all my others havebeen - then the 'babysitter' will have to be here in case they wake up and I can't ask her to wait upstairs!
DH was suggesting MIL be here this time but I'm not keen on that either TBH.
What did you do?