10 weeks pregnant and partner not being nice

8 replies

undermilkwood · 03/04/2011 09:53

dont know what to do. Live in his house so can't ask him to leave. Have 2 dogs so not many places will take them. He has become a bastard. Told me I was a 'f&@£ing' idiot yesterday for accidentally pulling out in front of a car. I asked him to drive as I was feeling tired and weak and he said 'stop playing the pregnancy card all the time'. He also said do me a favour have an abortion.....

This is not what I planned.

Tears.....

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fallingandlaughing · 03/04/2011 10:01

I'm sorry that sounds really hard.

Do you have any friends you could stay with? Maybe contact Dogs Trust or someone and see if they could fine someone to take your dogs til you have somewhere else to stay?

Look after yourself.

iwantadogbutarabbitwoulddo · 03/04/2011 11:48

Post this on relationships!

There are many experts there, seriously, they will help a lot.

apricotears · 03/04/2011 11:50

OMG, poor you; that sounds terrible. Pregnancy can be trying enough, without that sort of worry.

Perhaps he is just struggling to adjust to the idea of being a father??? Certainly not an excuse (IMO nothing excuses that sort of behaviour), but maybe he will come around in time?!?!?

Keep your chin up undermilkwood, lean on the people you know you can rely on; hopefully things will get better in time

BarbarianMum · 03/04/2011 12:04

Agree - post this on relationships. Your post is ringing all sorts of alarm bells to me.

magickcat · 03/04/2011 13:57

So sorry to hear you are having a rough time, good for you for thinking of getting out, it sounds like that would be for the best for you and your baby. Agree about reposting in Relationships, hope you find somewhere that can take your dogs.

AppleyEverAfter · 03/04/2011 16:26

Think you need to have a serious talk and find out a) Does he still want a relationship with you and the baby and b) Do you want to stay with him? This might help clear the air or push you towards a split, either way you can't go on feeling like this! Hope it gets resolved soon.

Thornykate · 03/04/2011 19:37

Think there is a charity that can look after pets if you have to leave home due to relationship breakdown, think they work with womens refuges a lot.

Sorry you are having hard time, it is so cruel that at the time a man is supposed to look after you he is making you feel worse, hope you find an acceptable solution soon, take care x

MoonFaceMamaaaaargh · 03/04/2011 20:22

Oh dear op. No advice i'm afraid but sympathy.

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