Did you have a 3rd trimester scan for fetal size and/or growth? The sonographer must have given you an estimated fetal weight. How accurate were they?
Please, I really need to know.
Been told bubs is average weight/size while here I am, at 39+1, with a ginormous belly, much larger than with DD and lots of extreme symptoms compared to 1st pregnancy. The fluid volume is normal too, so it can't be all water in there 
I've read a few posts where the baby turned out much bigger or smaller than EFW, in some cases causing unexpected problems at delivery...