Pregnancy symptoms 20dpo - advice please?

[wrinklyraisin]

Hi, I have had every symptom under the sun, and am 20 dpo. I had 2 days of moderate bleeding at 12-14 dpo. It was nothing like my period though, which is usually 5+ days of flooding. My boobs are currently still busting out of my bra, and are veiny and I have very dark bumpy nips. I still feel bloated. And I am soooooo crazy tired during the day but can't sleep at night???

I have done 3 tests, 1st was neg, 2nd was faint pos, 3rd later that day was neg and then I bled. The last test I did was last Saturday so I should take another one. Have spoken to my Dr who won't do a blood test unless I have ectopic symptoms which I am considering having just to get an answer!!!

Has anyone else had similar sympoms etc and been PG? I'm not excited or disappointed or anything except stressed out now!

The 3rd test you did could have been negative because it was done later in the day, therefore not using FMU. IME docs don't do preg tests anymore because HPTs are so reliable. If I were you I'd do another ASAP. Did you tell the doc you got one faint +ve? A +ve is a +ve whether faint or not. Possibly you have had an early/missed miscarriage (altho I'm not an expert on this). Glad you don't have symptoms of ectopic. But you need to get this sorted because you either are or were pregnant. If you are, you need to get checked because of the bleeding. If you were and have miscarried, you still need to be checked.... spell this out to your doc if he's still dithering. Good luck! And let us know how you are....