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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Has you sex life increased or decreased??

16 replies

MINNIE1 · 20/10/2005 14:47

In general has it increased, decreased or stayed the same?

Mine has decreased!!

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Racers · 20/10/2005 15:05

Pretty much the same pre- and post-natal as before!

mumfor1sttime · 20/10/2005 15:21

When I was in last few weeks of pg, I was soooo horny! Couldnt get enough and would pounce on DH when he came home from work.
Wish I could say the same now! Dont seem to get the time!

Busyalexsmummy · 20/10/2005 16:09

increased, but now im near the end (35+5) im def not really up for it, what with sickness/tiredness/spd

doormat · 20/10/2005 16:11

decreased but better quality

flamebat · 20/10/2005 16:11

About the same for me... but I had been stressed with wedding planning for months before pg so we're used to not havin much

Mak · 20/10/2005 20:50

Mine's gone off on an expedition to antartica. Hope it comes back soon - poor DH.

Passionkiller · 20/10/2005 22:21

About the same but it is like Doormat better quality.

MINNIE1 · 21/10/2005 08:56

Its time i put a little efford in so..

thanks ladies

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CADS · 21/10/2005 10:52

1st pregnancy the same if not higher towards the end, had a boy. This time completely non-existent, expecting a girl. I'm not saying there is any link, between sex drive and sex of baby.

MINNIE1 · 21/10/2005 11:29

CADS

Was kinda thinking the same myself!!! and i have though from the start i was havin a little girl..

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CADS · 21/10/2005 13:00

Do you know for sure what you having? Baby's sex that is.

I've just put it down to the fact that I have a 20mnth ds who exhausts me so not much energy for anything else.

My friend was the one that mentioned it. She completely lost her sex drive during her 1st pregnancy and had a girl. Old midwives tale?

auntymandy · 21/10/2005 13:04

do you want it more if you are having a girl?

auntymandy · 21/10/2005 13:05

sorry should read then post not the other way round!
I think there may be a link. higher female hormones or something.
Saying that. I have remarried and had 2 boys but not lost interest at all. Its poor DH thats tired!! Maybe its the man you are with?!

MINNIE1 · 21/10/2005 13:45

No just have a feeling it will be a girl.. Saying that it doesnt matter if it is a boy or girl, as long as it is healthy. I m/c my first and to have the chance again puts the sex of the baby way down on the list IYKWIM.

As to my sex life, i could never imagine myself going a week without it!! Its not DP when we do do it its great but its getting into the mood is the thing!! I would much prefer to cuddle..

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sweetheart · 21/10/2005 14:04

Mine has been seriously up over recent weeks - seems to have tailed off a bit in the last week or so but thats coz I have been so tired.

Otherwise, haven't felt this horny for ages - and I'm having a boy!

MINNIE1 · 21/10/2005 15:09

Oooo my feeling on the gender could be right!!! and i have a scan on Tues!!! (wont find out but will look and see if i can see anything)

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