increased libido but dh not interested aaargh!

[yummytummy]

hi, just it really. have felt really horny this time round and could quite happily dtd every day. however dh does quite long hours and usually just wants to sleep most days. i think also me being pg puts him off a bit sexually with changing shape, bump, baby etc.

its just so frustrating! does anyone else have this, is there anyway i can calm myself down or deal with it better. am just a bit fed up of always having to go to sleep totally frustrated and resentful of him.

i mean ok i know everyone gets tired sometimes but all the time? i probably wont want to much after anyway so would like to make the most of it now.

aaargh!

Have you spoken to him about it?

yeah and he just gets stressed and says if i pressure him it makes it worse and i should just accept a no without a fuss. dont think he gets it though as has never had a huge libido anyway.

I was terrible when I was pregnant, I felt massively horny the whole time.

My (now ex) h wasn't interested.

Frightened of hurting the baby (or so he said!!)

Vibrator? That made it worse for me, but it might help!! My tits were also super sensitive, could practically cum just from touching them!!

I second h20's suggestion. My DH is quite happy to oblige, but is only home ten days or so a month! I think I would have gone mad by now without a bit of quick relief!

It's annoying, isn't it. Mine was the same as yours when I was pg with DD. I felt like I was just a baby-maker, no longer an attractive woman (lol, if I ever was really!). And he got right on my nerves after she was born and he fancied me again, because I didn't want him anywhere near my poor mangled bits!