Finding out sex of 3rd?

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We didn't with either of the other 2 but they are now 4 and 5. Those of you who have had 3, did you find out and did it help the other 2 to know do you think? DH and I can't decided whether it will be beneficial for them to know or whether to not find out because we like the surprise aspect . .. oh what to do!!!!

We are going to find out this time. We've done the surprise thing and would quite like to know.

However I only want to know if they can tell me for sure. Unless they are certain I don't want to know. Would hate to be told the wrong thing and know a few people it has happened to.

Hadn't even thought of that! We might go down the same route then, pretend the choice isn't in our hands :)

We found out with first (girl) didnt find out with second (boy) and we will find out with this one! Feel we need to be able to sort the clothes out and make bedroom arrangements!