I lost my second baby three weeks ago. The doctor took a swab to check for infection when I went in with heavy bleeding four days after it happened. It took a lot of "can you please find out the results please" before they said I did have an infection and they gave me 7 days antibiotics but how do I know if it worked or not? The only thing that made me wonder if there was something wrong in the first place was that I felt really swollen and sore down there but it's no wonder when you've just lost a baby.
My DH and I want to start trying again but are worried I've not got rid of the infection yet. I called the hospital to ask them and was told they were too busy to talk to me and would call back by 11.30, its now 3.30 so I don't think that's happening. I've been trying to get an appointment with my GP but the receptionist wouldn't let me! She said I had to ring the hospital because they gave me the antibiotics. I tried calling again today but after three hours of the phone just ringing and ringing I had to admit defeat.
It's not just that we want to try again but I've been pregnant twice this year and because of my bleeding in both pregnancies our midwife had us on a sex ban. We need the closeness, now more than ever. Am I worrying about nothing?