how to tell them

[claire87]

i have a little girl aged 3 to my ex partner we have been split up for nearly 3 years...just didnt work out after baby was born but still very good friend....i am not pregnant again (13 weeks) i have not yet told my ex and i was looking a little bit of advise on how to tell him that his little girl is going to have a sister or brother...we are both in new happy relatonships but i am worried about how he is going to feel about this

sorry i mean i am now pregnant again lol

Really difficult without knowing you or your ex, but as you're still good friends I'd be totally straight with him, sit him down in private or phone him up when you know he'll be on his own and just tell him. You could start off by saying something like "I wanted you to be one of the first to know.." if you don't think that would be at all weird (for either of you!).

Chances are he'll be delighted that his daughter will be getting a sibling, especially as you're both in good relationships now. Good luck!