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Pregnancy

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is sex okay in first trimester?

16 replies

trollprincess · 01/09/2005 11:39

Hi,
I;m about 7 weeks, and although I'm feeling nauseous in the day, neither of us have gone off sex. I had a m/c in March so want to be careful, but the doctor didn't say anything about not having sex.

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Lizzylou · 01/09/2005 11:40

I think it's fine as long as you are not bleeding...congrats!

dropinthe · 01/09/2005 11:41

Do it while you can-you won't want to soon enough!

mumtosomeone · 01/09/2005 11:42

Never been told to abstain!!!!
Think its ok..wont cause a miscarriage unless something is wrong and you would have miscarried anyway!! IYSWIM

GeorgieVickyLou · 01/09/2005 11:43

I'm with dropinthe.. go for it Hun..

mumtosomeone · 01/09/2005 11:43

never went off it!!!

suzywong · 01/09/2005 11:43

yes
it is

Lizzylou · 01/09/2005 11:44

Congrats too that you are not too tired to want it!!! I was rampant with DS, but am now too tired to even begin to contemplate a night of pash!

Kelly1978 · 01/09/2005 12:07

I got told to abstain, but this was after heavy bleeding. As long as you haven't bled this time you should be fine.

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trollprincess · 01/09/2005 12:20

Thank you! Just felt that I'm so hormonal and worried the rest of the time, I didn't want to give up the thing that helps the most!

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Enid · 01/09/2005 12:33

I wouldn't go erm too deeply IYKWIM.

My gp told me to abstain or be very careful (I was pg with dd2 and had had a m/c a few months previously)

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 01/09/2005 21:45

LOL

Its such a shame for my dh.We are ttc at the moment so he has to drop pants on demand but when I am pg its a big no no for me! Think he is glad of rest, he never complains.But aside from throwing up for most of the pg we both get a bit freaked out about sex! He thinks he might touch the babies head!

Not that hes well endowed or anything....

cod · 01/09/2005 21:46

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nannyjo · 01/09/2005 21:48

i was told mo rough sex!!

cod · 01/09/2005 21:48

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nannyjo · 01/09/2005 21:49

*no

Vaunda · 01/09/2005 21:56

reading your title to this posting had me rolling round laughing manically with DH looking on like i have lost the plot. When I was pregnant with DS a girl i knew was pregnant same time. I was working and she came into the shop i worked in and well i will type the conversation as it went but no laughing please or you'll start me off again.

Her: I hope you are going to tell ben what I have tol my darren
Me: Whats that?
Her: that we are not having sex again until after the baby is born
Me: (thinking of a medical reason) Why?
Her: well when my mum was pregnant with me she had sex with my dad and 8 years later she had my sister....

ok i going to get asthma inhaler now

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