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DP not coming to first scan - am I stupid for being upset?

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buttercup123 · 03/09/2010 09:00

So DP told me last night that he can't come to the first scan, as he has a work meeting that he can't get out of.

We haven't told anyone yet, because we wanted to wait for the scan before going public - so I can't get anyone else to go with me. Am I stupid for being upset about this? Or is it quite normal for people to go to the first scan solo?

I know that (in the grand scheme of things) this REALLY isn't a big issue. But I guess I'm just struggling with not being able to talk to anyone about any of this, and want someone to tell me to buck up my ideas and stop being silly...

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LittleSilver · 03/09/2010 20:00

Another one saying don't go alone; had similar experience to Loopy

buttercup123 · 03/09/2010 20:25

Well I've had the scan, and you were all totally right - was brilliant having my friend there, made a huge difference. But the scan was all good, everything fine. Such a relief! Didn't know how happy I would be to get that news - now I can start feeling excited!

Thanks again for lovely support...

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Alibabaandthe40nappies · 03/09/2010 21:46

Aw that's lovely! Congratulations! Grin

PlumBumMum · 04/09/2010 10:13

Ahh Congratulations glad it went well

MeganMog · 04/09/2010 13:01

Very pleased that it went well, congratulations!

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