Serious withdrawl symptoms now ladies...

[YummyMummy1208]

Its coming up to at least 3 or 4 months now since the last sexual encounter i had with OH ( due to me being pregnant, he thinks its 'wrong' to have sex with a baby inside of me).
...i am now dreaming about it on a regular basis tmi maybe but its getting serious now!lol. Last nite i dreamt we hired 2 strippers for my NANs birthday (no idea where that came from!) and they were pretty damn hot aswell.

Help! Anyone else partner witholding sex until baby arrives or just mine?!

That's a shame YummyMummy1208.

Can't help I'm afraid. Dh finding me sexy at 37+ weeks makes me feel better about being enormous and uncomfortable.

Oh dear, I'm trying to be sympathetic but it's coming out all wrong.

YummyMummy, my partner too is withholding (penetrative) sex as the last time we had sex I bled a little and he is worried he will send me into prem labor!! So far it has been.... 7 weeks :( I am now 32 weeks and SOOOOOOOOOOOO horny!!!! (I have had lots of sex dreams too )

We are still doing 'alternative' stuff and having lots of cuddles but its really not the same and so frustrating!!!

can totally relate - except it's me denying myself and DH the pleasure. at least your DH's can't complain !
i've had four miscarriages and am paranoid about anything and everything. am absolutely gagging for it and so is he but it's not worth the misery afterwards when i panic we might have caused some damage. so there's been no sex since APRIL bar one episode, after which i cried with fear and concluded it wasn't worth it. beat that, ladies!

Well he is game for 'alternative' methods but im being stubborn and saying if its not going to go the whole way then im not going to bother. so i may be biting my own nose off to spite my face but hey ho.

Why should he get the pleasure and refuse me any? Its also, i supose, having an effect on me mentally - i would love to be able to say what ur saying yama that he makes me feel sexy when pregnant but he actually has the oposite effect - hearing 'pregnancy is not exactly a turn on' during ur fat pregnancy days doesnt really help, its obviously my body thats the issue here as im the one with the baby growing inside of me so it hurts my OH doesnt just concntrate on the good bits - new curves,bigger boobs etc.

Slightly frustrating!

I'm sorry YummyMummy1208 - I hope I haven't made you feel worse.

Being big and clumsy and stared at everywhere you go is no fun is it?

I'm tempted to say "it wont be long now" but I know how annoying that is.

Its ok yama

I think it would be just lovely to have a partner who loves a pregnant body, just at the time u need the most reassurance as you generally feel like a huge whale when pregnant it would be nice having ur OH fancy you more. you are very lucky yama!

Me on the otherhand, well i will just have to carry on dreaming about my sex life i suppose! Although, once baby is here i doubt we will get back to normal very soon with a new born and a toddler! so it may be a while before we're hanging from the lampshades again!

Wait until hes not around and get the toys out to play

I would suggest a little online shopping at Sh or Lovehoney. One battery operated toy, orgasms on tap, husband can go hang.

Oooooh i love lovehoney!