blow jobs, lol

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first of all, this is a serious, if slighlty funny question

at 30 weeks, baba is getting in the way quite a bit now. we can manage sex easily enough, but im really struggling to give head, as i am either uncomfortable or cant breathe!!

we've tried it a variety of different ways, but it doesnt really help. any suggestions??

Stop trying. Surely he can manage a few weeks without?

Tell him to toss off in the shower

Serious? If you really want to I can give some advice but what have you already tried?

No no, better for him to get used to going without now as you certainly won't feel like getting jiggy for at least 6 weeks post birth!!

Men are selfish twats

Best not to 'lol' during a blowjob, IIRC. Carries a high risk of choking.

I applaud your dedication, but why exactly do you want to carry on giving them when you are so uncomfortable???

Just give up, surely that is the sensible option! You don't want to do yourself a mischief. God, honestly, doesn't your partner see you struggling?

I suggest you use your hand(s) instead.

If your partner can see it's so uncomfortable for you why does he insist you keep trying?

Don't know about you but that would be a passion killer for my DH.

Wow, I'm surprised so many of you think its just for his pleasure! I love giving blow jobs and still did in pregnancy.

What if you sit on the bed (if its low - or the couch) and him stand in front of you?

CBS, I love giving blow jobs, but if you are small with a big bump I can see how it can cause breathing issues as such.

Pregnancy is sometimes about adaption and sometimes things that you normally enjoy will become uncomfortable. If you can resolve it great, if not it's sometimes best to just leave it for a few months........

But she obviously WANTS to do it - her OP is asking how to get in a good position, not complaining about him hassleing her for it when she doesn't want to!

I gave plenty during pregnancy as easier than full sex. But I use my hands alot anyway - which helps if feeling breathless as can use mouth less - hence my suggestion.

Iggly - did you wear the Garbo trousers?! ha ha!!!

When the baby drops sex will be more difficult and breathing/blow job will get easier! I had a massive sex drive when pregnant with DS but this time I am not interested at all, luckily DH has a much lower sex drive than me anyway so he's not missing anything.

Have to say in response to PussinJimmyChoos I gave DH lots of oral sex post birth as I was still feeling very sexy but was in too much pain to have sex, found it very frustrating! Everyone's different and I hope you find a way to enjoy a full sex life for the rest of your pregnancy, sorry I don't have any practical advice!

thats where I was going wrong!

Good lord - it's behaviour like this that got you into this situation, and you want to repeat it

If I'd stuck to blowjobs, I wouldn't be on this website.

I'm only 14 weeks so not showing yet, but my favourite position giving oral is lying on my side with DH lying on his side and my face in his crotch to be blunt. As long as he doesn't start moving too much you have good control and are also free to use hands without having to support yourself.

Well, go ahead and do it then..

Just don't swallow...you will get terrible heartburn

I can picture the scene puss: hic, bleuuugh, hic blueerrrgh etc.