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If the prospective father of your planned baby's first words were ......

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hetookthecorkscrewtoo · 19/07/2010 21:23

'Is it mine' and 'I've had the snip' when he blatently hasn't, and this baby has been much wanted since you both decided to start trying nine months previously,what would you do??!!

Am i right to feel very hurt and frankly angry to have my what I though was fantastic news, ground into dirt. I have never betrayed this man, and am now in shock. He's left saying he doesn't resent 'the kid' but does resent me. I was telling me how much he loved me last week - this is a long term relationship by the way and at 37 with a ds (from a previous relationship), too old to do it on my own.

Sorry if a ramble - just don't know where I am at the moment

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Biscuitbreaker · 31/07/2010 19:52

hetookthecorkscrewtoo - just wanted to see how you were holding up.

Please remember you are not the first person to be in this awful situation, and you can make this work.

No-one should be telling you what to do right now. You need to do what is best for you and DS.

Hope you are well.

hetookthecorkscrewtoo · 02/08/2010 10:35

Hi everyone, I've a had a bit of a break away from things to try and get things straight in my head. I did post this link to my partner - in the hope it would help him see another side to things. Bit of a mistake as he has taken it badly and was very angry that I'd come on here to talk to people. I'm sure he'll check back to see if I've written anything else so I'll be signing off for now and just wanted to say thank you very much for all your support and replies xxxxx

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