My child has been potty training for around 3/4 weeks now. They only had 3 accidents the whole time so was definitely ready after a few failed attempts. Shes 3.5 years old
Today before leaving my child they went to the potty and done a substantial pee. Then we got to soft play I took them to toilet and they said they didnt need but tried. Within 5 mins of being there they had an accident. She told me straight away and was near to the entrance in and out the soft play. It is a small one so can have eyes on. I had her younger daughter with me also so bundled them up to change and tell staff. As I was walking out a grandad grabbed my arm and starting moaning that the whole place will need cleaned that its ridiculous shes had an accident. He went on and on. I could see my daughter picking up on this and I really tried to explain to her accidents happen and encourage going to potty/toilet. Once I came back from telling staff and changing her. He greeted me again to say staff still weren't here and that she my daughter shouldn't be going back in till shes not having accidents. I told him I told staff im trying to manage both my kids safely this soft play is in a cafe there is hot drinks etc. I genuinely didnt know what he wanted me to do. Another grandparent said to him shes told staff they will be.coming just leave it now. I was on the verge of tears and just got my stuff and left.
Was I wrong to take her to soft play? Would other parents not have done this so soon? I feel so guilty