telling 3 1/2 year old to stay in room at night but...

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what about the point that he soon may need to pee in night as may soon wake up when needs too

his nappy is horrendously full in morning so still think some time to come before dry at night but then again maybe he wakes up and does it in his nappy in the morning and i don't know because he is lieing in bed waiting for me

argh!!!!!!!!!!!

but what how do i reconcile staying in your room with night time toilet training!?

anyone???

You can't.

You have to teach them that may get up to use the toilet but they MUST go straight back to bed.

at that age mine had a digital clock in the room and they werent to come through till it says 7:00 unless they need the toilet. If they come through for the toilet then they go back to bed until the clock says the right time. Neither of mine have a problem with this.