What punishments should I use, I just have no idea now

[TriplePachyderm]

dd2 is still wet
tests cqame back to say no infection

she was dry a while back the day that my mate said he'd give her a quid to stay dry

then the next coupe of days shes wet and I asked why she was dry when she was offered a pound for being dry but not now and she said well thats cause you said you would give me a pound

she doesn'[t seem to care

I dont know what punishments to use

help me
she does not need anymore reason to be teased at school

Trinity if you google it you will find that it is quite common, and also common that children are dry at school but not at home. Not surprising that you get so frustrated with it, but don't blame yourself or your situation

Mt sister's dd was like this - a combination of 'being too busy' to go, and also quite 'liking the feeling' of weeing in her pants. Sounds like your pasta jar is a good way of dealing with the fist of these and encouraging her to make the effort. If she finds the feeling of being wet and warm quite comforting is there an alternative way of providing comfort e.g. a hug with a special cuddly toy, special cuddle time with mummy?

How about special pants that can be worn only when she can stay dry? let her choose some new ones that she can wear as a reward for 3 days dry.